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Old 02-16-2011, 10:05 PM
 
Location: Charlotte
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i was (and still am) a 'nice girl' - got good grades in school, didnt get in much trouble was sneakier than they knew though LOL), was in marching band, tennis and swimming...went to a private girls college... yup pretty nice overall...lol

i married a nice japanese guy who could cook (race only mentioned cause some brought up race issues). cause lord knows i wasnt gonna learn how to cook. LMAO. ok, so he talks Sh** all the time, but yeah, hes a nice guy

i think if you gravitate towards the ones that arent nice, than...well... thats what youre going to end up with. me, i always knew what i wanted and wasnt interested in the 'bad ones'- they were fun as friends and pals but to date? nope- not interested. i knew (even at a very young age) that i wanted a nice guy, who would make a good husband and dad. once i found him, i wasnt gonna let him go.
Okay, now that means that only Indian men are the unwanted species, every other minority must be good enough by American standards then.
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Old 02-16-2011, 10:14 PM
 
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There have been several threads about "nice guys finishing last." I thought I'd start a thread about women. Do you think that "nice women finish last?" Just curious....
Hell NO! That is #1 for many of us. It's even better if they are HOT!
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Old 02-16-2011, 11:21 PM
 
Location: Charlotte
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Anyway thanks for all those who have commented on my posts, and showed me the path of truth, I have decided that I need to go back to India and live there in order to take charge of my personal self, it's perhaps an Indian man's destiny to not be accepted by any other race other than Indian, it's okay, I got a bachelor's and master's here in a top 20 university, made some good friends, all in all, barring the personal life part and the rejections because of my race, I liked my time here.

Good bye folks, and thanks for making it clear to me that men of my ethnicity would never be accepted in USA no matter what, was a real eye opener to me.
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Old 02-17-2011, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Anyway thanks for all those who have commented on my posts, and showed me the path of truth, I have decided that I need to go back to India and live there in order to take charge of my personal self, it's perhaps an Indian man's destiny to not be accepted by any other race other than Indian, it's okay, I got a bachelor's and master's here in a top 20 university, made some good friends, all in all, barring the personal life part and the rejections because of my race, I liked my time here.

Good bye folks, and thanks for making it clear to me that men of my ethnicity would never be accepted in USA no matter what, was a real eye opener to me.
It's this attitude that's your downfall with women, not your ethnicity. Take the chip off your shoulder and you may be more successful.
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Old 02-17-2011, 08:48 AM
 
Location: NC
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It's this attitude that's your downfall with women, not your ethnicity. Take the chip off your shoulder and you may be more successful.
i agree. i would have chosen my hubby no matter his race.
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Old 02-17-2011, 08:51 AM
 
Location: Charlotte
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It's this attitude that's your downfall with women, not your ethnicity. Take the chip off your shoulder and you may be more successful.
What chip on the shoulder, asserting a fact doesn't make me have a chip on my shoulder.
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Old 02-17-2011, 08:51 AM
 
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Nope. For women its a good thing to be nice, and they are rewarded for it.

Fat women are the ones who finish last.

A fat girl is the female equivalent of a nice guy.
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Old 02-17-2011, 09:34 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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What chip on the shoulder, asserting a fact doesn't make me have a chip on my shoulder.
Change your attitude, change your life. It's a bumper sticker/Dr. Phil sentiment, but it's true and it works. Sometimes you can't help what happens to you, but you can control how you react to it.
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Old 02-17-2011, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Charlotte
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Change your attitude, change your life. It's a bumper sticker/Dr. Phil sentiment, but it's true and it works. Sometimes you can't help what happens to you, but you can control how you react to it.
My attitude is fine, it's perfect, it's people I come across that are very prejudiced and judgmental for no reason, I can't change that, anyway I accept things for how they are, I am not commenting anymore about this here again.
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Old 02-17-2011, 09:56 AM
 
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Nope. For women its a good thing to be nice, and they are rewarded for it.

Fat women are the ones who finish last.

A fat girl is the female equivalent of a nice guy.
how fat?
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