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I know one guy who was real smooth, but I wouldn't exactly say he had ladies in wait. He only got those who were attracted to that "style". The rest thought he was just a "nice guy".
The only Cassanova's I know of are gay men. Women love them and love to be around them. When you remove the aspect of creepy guy-friend trying to sleep with you, it's no wonder.
Sure but do keep in mind that I might be playing the field too. I don't care about closed relationships for the meantime so if you're actually looking for a decent woman who wants nothing but a commited relationship along with the ''Will you love me forever'' thing then the way you're acting definitely will not attract her to you.
Also that's not the right place to find her either. You'll get nothing but party girls over there.
Women like gay men because they can let their guard down and not have to worry about them trying to get in their pants.
OP, you should forget about trying to be some kind of casanova and work more on building yourself up. If you have direction, passion, self-esteem, and confidence women will naturallly be more attracted to yourself. Being insecure and desperate to please will not work in your favor. Once again you got to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with another.
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Women like gay men because they can let their guard down and not have to worry about them trying to get in their pants.
I know there are a lot of--we'll just use abbreviations here --so-called FH's who get wild crushes on gay men and hang out with them with the high hopes that they'll be the one to make him 'switch sides'.
Because they are relaxed around women, and they never pressure a woman to have sex. Usually they treat a woman like she is their sister. If they have a humorous side on top of being gay, so much the better, as far as women are concerned.
Women like gay men because they like men but they want to be able to interact with them without having to worry about an expectation of sex. If you want to do better with women...stop treating them like a piece of meat...I don't know how many times I have to tell guys this. Most women do not want looked at like they are a hot wing ready to be devoured after the football game. Also it's true nice girls like nice guys the stereotypical bad girl doesn't want a nice guy. Trust me. Bars are not the best place to meet nice girls unless you are the traditional college age. After a certain age nice girls don't go to bars that much they go other places.
Gay guys are sort of like the nice guy they don't have to worry about letting down or leading on. Since in the traditional nice guy scenario the nice guy gets screwed after he treats her like gold but she still ends up going with the straight guy not right for her.
Because they are so much fun. I had a gay roommate once and we used to put our makeup on together and gossip while we did it. while we put the makeup on I mean.
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--so-called FH's who get wild crushes on gay men and hang out with them with the high hopes that they'll be the one to make him 'switch sides'.
Anyone know of a modern day Casanova?
