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Qualities like kindness and caring are positive and important but I don't find them sexy in themselves. There are plenty of nice girls in this world with no sexiness factor. Many women say the same thing about men, it works both ways. A lot of men seem to be in denial about this but the truth comes out in the way they react to women, not in what they say.
I also disagree with those who put fakeness on the list of unsexy. Artificial women are the ones who go out of their way to look sexy and often times it works.
All of the many adjectives used to describe whether a woman is sexy or undesirable can be swapped and inter-changed depending on how she expresses those things and the way in which she carries herself.
The single most important thing to me is her character. And by character, I also mean that a man's character must be at the top of her list.
I am a firm believer that if you lay with dogs, you wake with fleas. It never ceases to amaze me at how so many woman can date a guy with zero character and think nothing of it - think "The Situation" from "Jersey Shores."
I can't imagine a woman who would date a "Situation" type DB, would give a rat's rear end about hurting others, including the guy she is with. People either have character or they don't. Someone that lacking in character can not possibly think beyond their self - they are sociopaths. Unfortunately, I suspect there are a lot of sociopaths out there on multiple levels.
The catch is that the ones who are with great guys tend to stay with them, and the ones with the DBs who will eventually leave are more likely to be the sociopaths. Oh well, that's life I guess.
So... where is yours? A list of models and actresses? Perhaps just measurements. Since most of your posts are lame sexual innuendo and boasting of your prowess, I would venture to say that your list would be quite juvenile. But hey, some chicks dig that kind of stuff. *shrugs*
You've probably been single for a really long time
You've probably been single for a really long time
Typical juvenile rejoinder. Color me unimpressed. Hmm.. lets see, perhaps you can work a small penis joke in as well (Of course we all know how much you enjoy penises you write about them regularly). Or perhaps you can mention what luck you have with older guys at the gym.
Typical juvenile rejoinder. Color me unimpressed. Hmm.. lets see, perhaps you can work a small penis joke in as well (Of course we all know how much you enjoy penises you write about them regularly). Or perhaps you can mention what luck you have with older guys at the gym.
Oh, nothing of that sort, Matt. You're a really nice guy and I wish you the best to find the woman who fits your list pretty soon
Sexy/desirable:
Intelligent, not the kind that flaunts it around though. I'd love to have a conversation about life, the universe and everything with her.
Good sense of humor, if she can't laugh at life and good (and laughably bad) jokes then I don't want anything to do with her
Going off of that, knows how to use / take sarcasm. Can build the sexual tension
Not slutty. That's obviously subjective, but to me it means that she doesn't sleep around with every guy who's got a pulse, doesn't dress like a prostitute and doesn't have a new boyfriend every month (although that's more unstable than slutty). And before the radicals attack me for this, yes I think men ought to be held to those standards as well.
Not sexy/undesirable:
Lacking in good manners. Chew with your mouth closed, hold the door for people, and PLEASE don't sneeze/cough into your hands (use the elbow)
Too independent. I'm sure that sentence alone would start a flame war, so let me clarify: I don't want a woman who's got no life outside of me, but I'd like to do many things with her. I'm an introvert, I don't have or need tons of friends, so if I'm not hanging out with them then I'd like to either have "me time" or be with a woman.
No joie de vivre
Plays games. Please don't string me along or otherwise play games with me... I'm not interested in dealing with a girl.
Frankly I think 'desirable/undesirable' are better terms. Sexy, to me, is more physical.
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