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Old 11-24-2010, 08:42 AM
 
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OK... so I was reading along on the thread about the lady who wore her nightgown or something outside where she could be seen by the neighbors and it... reminded me of me. Well, not the mooning part. So anyway, it got me thinking about my constantly not wearing a bra and how surprised I've been that anyone even thinks *anything* about it.

So... question for you all:

What do you think of women who don't wear bras?

Do you assume they're trying to get attention?

Do you assume it's connected to their sexuality... that they are 'easy?'

Do you assume that they're too lazy to be bothered with social norms?

Or do you think nothing of it?

Disclaimer: I don't think your answers will affect my actions personally. I cannot stand bras. I only wear them when my shirt absolutely requires it. No matter what type I try, they itch, sting, make my breasts ache, etc. But I am curious as to whether it's truly the equivalent of the middle finger, socially, or if it's generally not a big deal to people.
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Old 11-24-2010, 08:55 AM
 
Location: Vegas, baby, Vegas!
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wouldn't this be more a flop off then a spin off?

Jonathan
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Old 11-24-2010, 08:57 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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wouldn't this be more a flop off then a spin off?

Jonathan
Not if they're fake
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Old 11-24-2010, 08:59 AM
 
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Unless you are young and have "perky breasts", wear a bra.
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Old 11-24-2010, 09:02 AM
 
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OK, these are examples of "what happens in your brain" when you confront bralessness.... any other more active brains who could translate their reactions?
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Old 11-24-2010, 09:10 AM
 
Location: Vegas, baby, Vegas!
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OK, I will be serious


What do you think of women who don't wear bras?

I am a breast man, and enjoy the view.

Do you assume they're trying to get attention?

Not necessarily, what ever is comfortable for the person.

Do you assume it's connected to their sexuality... that they are 'easy?'
I am a breast man, and enjoy the view.

Do you assume that they're too lazy to be bothered with social norms?

Not necessarily, what ever is comfortable for the person.

Or do you think nothing of it?

Every person is different, my only REAL opinion is when 'nipples' are showing do I feel a sexual urge or have a sexual opinion

Jonathan


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Old 11-24-2010, 09:11 AM
 
Location: North Western NJ
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ok...

for me going braless is impossible unless its bedtime...

but heres my thought on the subject...
i think there are 2 types of women...women who can go braless (usually those with smaller perkier breasts) and those who just plain cant (those, like me, who have been larger their entire life and have no friendship with gravity what-so-ever lol.)

i think a woman needs to know where they fall on the spectrum...

if they can go braless, good for them, i dont pass judgment other than hey that chicks lucky...
if they fall into the cant go braless category and try to anyway...i wonder why noone close to them said anythign...

i dont think either way their easy/hussies/trying for attention (unless its braless combines with an almost seethrough shirt lol) just a case of comfort and confidence...
i often wish i could get away with it so mabe im just jealous of those larger ladies who have the...confidence?...to go braless...lol
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Old 11-24-2010, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Cody, WY
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What do you think of women who don't wear bras?

I like women who are comfortable without bras, particularly in a light top.

Do you assume they're trying to get attention?

Of course.

Do you assume it's connected to their sexuality... that they are 'easy?'

They're obviously very aware of their sexuality. They may or may not be easy.

Do you assume that they're too lazy to be bothered with social norms?

Not lazy, but perhaps comtempuous. or perhaps they just like men to look at them.

Or do you think nothing of it?

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Old 11-24-2010, 09:14 AM
 
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I wear my bra 24/7 even when I go to bed. Im 24 but intend to cheat gravity for as long as I can
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Old 11-24-2010, 09:16 AM
 
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What do you think of women who don't wear bras?
I would need some pictures before deciding how I would feel about them. Well the feeling part might require a bit more than pictures.
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Do you assume they're trying to get attention?
Are they standing up and waving?
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Do you assume it's connected to their sexuality... that they are 'easy?'
I would hope their breasts are connected to them and that they are not "easy" to remove.
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Do you assume that they're too lazy to be bothered with social norms?
Not having had too many conversations with breasts I am unable to generalize to their attitudes concerning social norms. The ones I have engaged in causal talk has left me with wanting more.
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Or do you think nothing of it?
I must admit I did spend much of my misspent youth thinking of womens naked breasts. Nowadays, I only occasionaly think about them.
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