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If someone you have recently met and get along with asked you how you see them, is that a close to definite indicator they are interested in being more than friends? It would seem strange to ask that if they just want to be friends. How do you feel about someone asking you this question?
If someone you have recently met and get along with asked you how you see them, is that a close to definite indicator they are interested in being more than friends? It would seem strange to ask that if they just want to be friends. How do you feel about someone asking you this question?
"We can be friends. . ."
Those were the words of the woman whom is now my love, my soulmate, amor de mi vida.
Did she say that without you asking what she wanted?
She was coming out of a relationship and needed time and space. When I demostrated interest in her, she made herself clear by stating, "we can be friends."
I was patient, and waited. Never pushed or insisted. Gave her time, space, and maintained distance. But precisely from a distance, I everso delicately, lightly, and respectfully made my interest known.
An infrequent invitation to breakfast or lunch. Something casual, not formal. An ambiance where she could feel stress free, and at ease. A moment she might want to repeat on her own terms, if she so pleased.
Breakfast and lunches eventually lead to dinner, and an arm-in-arm stroll down Colorado Boulevard. We gazed at storefront windows and cafe crowds in the cool of the night. Several dinners later, we kissed. . .and have not stopped ever since.
you gotta crawl before you can walk
you gotta walk before you can run
you gotta run before you can fly
Start with friend, even if you end with friend, it still is a good deal
Jonathan
i've tried running and flapping my arms, but sadly i have never gotten off the ground.
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