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Talking about attractions towards a celebrity is one thing, a co-worker is quite another. He sounds quite immature.
Apparently my ex-fiance had a thing for a co-worker of his but she was married. Well wouldn't ya know it, she got divorced, set her sights on my guy and that was all it took. He dumped me, married her, and is now living unhappily ever after while she takes him to the cleaners in a divorce.
Talking about attractions towards a celebrity is one thing, a co-worker is quite another. He sounds quite immature.
Apparently my ex-fiance had a thing for a co-worker of his but she was married. Well wouldn't ya know it, she got divorced, set her sights on my guy and that was all it took. He dumped me, married her, and is now living unhappily ever after while she takes him to the cleaners in a divorce.
Talking about attractions towards a celebrity is one thing, a co-worker is quite another. He sounds quite immature.
Apparently my ex-fiance had a thing for a co-worker of his but she was married. Well wouldn't ya know it, she got divorced, set her sights on my guy and that was all it took. He dumped me, married her, and is now living unhappily ever after while she takes him to the cleaners in a divorce.
I'm still single but having the time of my life
Both are wrong
Actually, the men who obsess about some celebrities are somewhat making up for what their women don't have. It's a lame habit. I feel sorry for their women
so I know my bf of 6 months has always had a thing for a gilr ( who's married, but he thought she's really cute)at work. I dicided not to take it as a big deal as they are barely acquaintant and i thought it's just harmless attraction. and sometimes we joke about his attraction toward that girl.
yesterday i jokingly asked him if he would date that gilr if she's single, he said he will not as long as he has me. so i asked" as long as? then how long you expect it would be" then he said" i don't know, maybe forever, maybe for a few months more"....this is not an answer i expected and i feel hurt to hear that" maybe a few months more" . it sounds like he didn't care enough to maintain this relationship and make it to work.
am i being too sensitive? my apoligies if its trifle.
Nobody else should appear "cute" to an attached man. If so, I question the attachment. There's your answer
Like there's a real chance in hell he'd actually end up faced with the opportunity to date her. Like I said it's all in the delivery, but I have always had relationships where we're secure enough and comfortable enough to comment on the looks or attitudes of other people as being attractive both men and women.
i think comment on the looks is one thing, talking about the attraction toward them is another.
i think comment on the looks is one thing, talking about the attraction toward them is another.
Well, like I said, context is everything and being a secure person is important too. Just the other night I was talking with a guy and the conversation turned to this actor and that actress and who you would consider 'doable' or had the hots for and thought was attractive. We were both able to express our opinion knowing there was little validity to the prospect - but I was able to comment on women I thought were attractive as well as men and vice versa. Just depends on the context and delivery. Lighten up and just say, "Well, you know who I always thought was hot was ...." and see what kind of reaction you get. Don't say it spiteful just express a thought.
"I feel disrespected" blah blah blah - you are making a mountain out of an ant hill. Drop it.
I agree. Quit creating a problem where there is none.
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