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Old 12-19-2010, 11:26 AM
 
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How does a guy determine whether a lady will be someone they would consider having a long term relationship with versus someone to sleep with casually?
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Old 12-19-2010, 12:33 PM
 
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The best ones dont give away the milk for free. You got to buy the cow
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Old 12-19-2010, 12:59 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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Ok, I get it, this is a test for all males to see who still qualifies for Holiday Gifts this year....


Ok, ahem...{clear throat, cough}
- It all depends on the personality of the guy...
- Dating the wrong guy, could force the lady into becoming involved in a FWB relationship...
- There are guys who get their pleasure by
Playing Head Games
(
although I think the phrase should be Playing Heart Games)... Ladies should be cautious who they date....
Did I recite the manta correctly? Do I still get a present this year? Did I forget anything?.....

All sarcasm aside--- There really is no 'one-size-fits-all' cookie cutter mold response for your question. The largest common denominator just might be the specific guy in question.

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Old 12-19-2010, 01:02 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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The fact that you're even asking such a stupid question shows YOU'RE not marriage material.

So says one who doesn't 'give it away for free.'
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Old 12-19-2010, 01:02 PM
 
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the best ones dont give away the milk for free. You got to buy the cow

tinstaafl
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Old 12-19-2010, 01:06 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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How does a guy determine whether a lady will be someone they would consider having a long term relationship with versus someone to sleep with casually?
If she sleeps with you casually, chances are she sleeps with other people casually. Don't forget that.
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Old 12-19-2010, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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I think too many people make sex something special, they put it on a pedestal to be worshipped. Statements about free milk. Well people, women love it as much as men. If a woman chooses to not engage in sex there are many men who will court them, virgins.
I heard a expression I love : your body is not a temple it is a amusement park, go enjoy it.

Dr Ruth said it best years ago, she said women and men need to have sex and a lot, with many partners. The idea here is exactly comparison. A person should find the partner who rocks your socks off. Great sex will not make a perfect marriage but it is a building block.

Life is too short for acceptable sex.
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Old 12-19-2010, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Connecticut is my adopted home.
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Tomato-tomahto,

It depends upon the the individuals in question, whether they are inclined, ready and have basis for long term intimacy together.

Timing and properly meshing is involved. IOW there is no one size fits all answer.
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Old 12-19-2010, 03:24 PM
 
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The best ones dont give away the milk for free. You got to buy the cow
Sex isn't something you give away, it's something enjoyed between 2 people. Buying the cow is just such a derogatory remark to make.
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Old 12-19-2010, 03:33 PM
 
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I think too many people make sex something special, they put it on a pedestal to be worshipped. Statements about free milk. Well people, women love it as much as men. If a woman chooses to not engage in sex there are many men who will court them, virgins.
I heard a expression I love : your body is not a temple it is a amusement park, go enjoy it.


Dr Ruth said it best years ago, she said women and men need to have sex and a lot, with many partners. The idea here is exactly comparison. A person should find the partner who rocks your socks off. Great sex will not make a perfect marriage but it is a building block.

Life is too short for acceptable sex.
I heard that! Like it's some act of God you can bonk! Same as "it's the miracle of life"! Anyone reasonably healthy with part (A) and another part (B) can do it and are qualified. If it was that special people wouldn't jokingly say.......... "oh man, this is better than sex"! lol lol Yeah, a '68 Dodge Charger with a 426 Hemi is pretty damn cool!
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