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Old 12-29-2010, 11:53 AM
 
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The only man who has the right to "care" about whether his bride is a virgin or not is a man who himself is a virgin

Any man with a sexual history who expects his bride to be a virgin is a pig.
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Old 12-29-2010, 11:56 AM
 
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The only man who has the right to "care" about whether his bride is a virgin or not is a man who himself is a virgin

Any man with a sexual history who expects his bride to be a virgin is a pig.

Ooh, strong words, my friend! But very true indeed.
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Old 12-29-2010, 12:00 PM
 
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Ooh, strong words, my friend! But very true indeed.
Maybe "pig" was not the best description, lol. After all, I hear pigs make good pets for some people

How about this, any man with a sexual history who expects his bride to be a virgin is a louse, a neanderthal, an ignoramous worse than a boil on the butt of humanity!
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Old 12-29-2010, 12:03 PM
 
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IMO. Guys don't care if their wife is a Virgin nowadays. Most men just don't want to marry a ***** that is going to bang every guy that she thinks is cute.

Most men have come to terms with women as sexual beings. Men and women are sowing their wild oats nowadays.

It's just at some point. When you make a decision to settle down. A guy is looking for love, and loyalty from his woman. If he has in the back of his mind that she is jumping on every guy. The minute he walks out of the door. The relationship isn't going to work.
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Old 12-29-2010, 12:03 PM
 
Location: Syracuse IS Central New York.
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Maybe "pig" was not the best description, lol. After all, I hear pigs make good pets for some people

How about this, any man with a sexual history who expects his bride to be a virgin is a louse, a neanderthal, an ignoramous worse than a boil on the butt of humanity!
And don't forget an out and out HYPOCRITE!!
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Old 12-29-2010, 12:07 PM
 
Location: In The Outland
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No.
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Old 12-29-2010, 12:30 PM
 
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= =i am really curious...
coz i am chinese,
and i asked this question for some chinese male friends and european male friends...the answer is really different....

chinese guys care about virgin a lot....some of them wont marry virgin...some of them can accept not virgin...but prefer virgin...some of them even think i am disgutsing talk about sex....

european guys think it is crazy as a old virgin...they can not accept a relationship with no real sex...one of them even think i make him confused and he think if i dont do real sex,then i can not close to guys and can not accept their kiss...i can not expect for love from european guys if i dont do real sex.....

what's ur idea?
I personally GREATLY admire a woman who has enough self control and common sense to wait till her marriage night which will most likely be in her 20's in any case . But over here in the USA, the motto is Entitlement , including using each other for mere copulations as a favorite pastime . Its considered an American 'right' and theres no shame or concern about the enormous National STD Epidemic that kills, gives cervical cancer , and decreases one chance of future marriage .

Maintain your wise Asian values and ethics, and dont become americanized. Thats the best plain advice i can offer you . I like Asian people alot and I have a few Asian friends . In closing , here is the 'Safe Sex' lie, exposed ... plus the sexually immoral American culture (STD Report at the bottom of the site) you will be getting into if you decide to take your chances. Regards. http://www.pregnancychoices.com/thesafesexlie.htm (broken link)
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Old 12-29-2010, 12:30 PM
 
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Not anymore I don't.
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Old 12-29-2010, 03:16 PM
 
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I won't date a virgin, so there is no way I'd marry a virgin.
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Old 12-29-2010, 03:20 PM
 
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I don't think being a virgin makes you automatically bad in bed.
Stan, it sounds like you've never been with a woman who's really really good in bed or a virgin. Can't say that i've ever slept with a woman under 23-24 who was any good in bed. Even my ex wife didn't get good until she hit 25, and we were married at age 21. Granted experience doesn't automatically make you good, but lack of experience, it definitely shows.
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