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Old 12-29-2010, 03:49 PM
 
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LovesMountains wrote:

I couldn't agree more. I've never understood why so many men (particularly in certain Muslim nations and elsewhere) demand a virgin for a wife even though they've gotten as much sex as they possibly could. You may have noticed that my status says "Pigs get lonely too" which acknowledges my mispent youth and carousing among those of the female persuasion but I at least admit it and wouldn't expect a female companion to have lived her life as a reclusive Nun.
i never think we have to laugh to pigs..................
and actually i agree with pigs..................
but.i am doubting it.......
is it really right?do i really have the right to have sex before marry?

answer from my chinese friend is.if u did it before marry,u are no valuable anymore.so...maybe better not do it...
but....that sounds girls just like the products.............can be valuable and sale.....................
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Old 12-29-2010, 03:54 PM
 
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I could not marry a virgin.
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Old 12-29-2010, 05:15 PM
 
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dont date a virgin....how u know if a girl is virgin or not before date..?
and i think to be a teacher of ur wife is a nice thing isnt it?
someone tell me ,some girls learns very fast.some even 30 years old still bad at sex.
it's not the problem of virgin or not.
How they handle flirting, etc usually easily exposes a virgin. I don't do online dating, so I meet woman through someone or out in public. I don't just "ask them out". I may get their contact info and once we start chatting, I find out their likes and dislikes and from there it's usually easy.

You are right, some 30 years old are bad, but like anything else, there is a learning curve, practice, etc. Nobody picks up a baseball for the first time and throws a 99 mph fastball. And like my cousins wife who was a virgin, suddenly now, she is wondering what sex with other men is all about, because she's only been with him. No thanks. I'd rather be with someone who's been around the block and isn't straying strictly out of curiosity or because they missed out on experimenting, etc. I'd rather be with a woman who is going to push my limits and explore new things, rather than spending time trying to teach.
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Old 12-29-2010, 05:45 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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It is not up to the virgin to be good or bad in bed.

It is up to the passion that is provoked from the union of the two bodies... it is the chemistry

I personally don't care at my age. I'm certainly not - by a longshot, so I cannot demand that my next Lady be a virgin.

I'd like to find someone who I can call my best friend, who I can tickle and nurture when she's not feeling well - who can make me laugh because I love to laugh and no one has to be a virgin to have all those qualities.

She doesn't even have to cook well, because I can cook It would be nice if she could! And I'd rather she cooked well than be a virgin.

If she's not good in bed, I would not blame that on her
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Old 12-29-2010, 07:44 PM
 
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How they handle flirting, etc usually easily exposes a virgin. I don't do online dating, so I meet woman through someone or out in public. I don't just "ask them out". I may get their contact info and once we start chatting, I find out their likes and dislikes and from there it's usually easy.

You are right, some 30 years old are bad, but like anything else, there is a learning curve, practice, etc. Nobody picks up a baseball for the first time and throws a 99 mph fastball. And like my cousins wife who was a virgin, suddenly now, she is wondering what sex with other men is all about, because she's only been with him. No thanks. I'd rather be with someone who's been around the block and isn't straying strictly out of curiosity or because they missed out on experimenting, etc. I'd rather be with a woman who is going to push my limits and explore new things, rather than spending time trying to teach.
..............i think if i want...i can flirt well.......but most of time i just dont want..................
a virgin will curious about how to make love with others after marry.......interesting...............maybe just coz the culture is really different..............
what about a virgin has more experience than u but just still virgin coz some religion.we call that technique virgin.
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Old 12-31-2010, 09:34 AM
 
Location: maryland
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The only man who has the right to "care" about whether his bride is a virgin or not is a man who himself is a virgin

Any man with a sexual history who expects his bride to be a virgin is a pig.
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Old 12-31-2010, 09:35 AM
 
Location: maryland
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I personally GREATLY admire a woman who has enough self control and common sense to wait till her marriage night which will most likely be in her 20's in any case . But over here in the USA, the motto is Entitlement , including using each other for mere copulations as a favorite pastime . Its considered an American 'right' and theres no shame or concern about the enormous National STD Epidemic that kills, gives cervical cancer , and decreases one chance of future marriage .

Maintain your wise Asian values and ethics, and dont become americanized. Thats the best plain advice i can offer you . I like Asian people alot and I have a few Asian friends . In closing , here is the 'Safe Sex' lie, exposed ... plus the sexually immoral American culture (STD Report at the bottom of the site) you will be getting into if you decide to take your chances. Regards. The Safe Sex Lie - Alternatives of Kalamazoo (http://www.pregnancychoices.com/thesafesexlie.htm - broken link)

Those same Asian cultures also entitle men to bed as many women as possible and encourage them to have affairs.
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Old 12-31-2010, 09:36 AM
 
Location: maryland
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I thought every guy's fantasy was to be with a virgin. On the other hand, with kids growing up so fast these days, do virgins still exist anymore?

No more than they did 80 years ago ethyl.
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Old 12-31-2010, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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i never think we have to laugh to pigs..................
and actually i agree with pigs..................
but.i am doubting it.......
is it really right?do i really have the right to have sex before marry?

answer from my chinese friend is.if u did it before marry,u are no valuable anymore.so...maybe better not do it...
but....that sounds girls just like the products.............can be valuable and sale.....................
If your Chinese friends think that the only value you have is your virginty, then it is time for you to find new friends!
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Old 12-31-2010, 10:44 AM
 
Location: New England
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I always liked the line in the Mary Chapin Carpenter song that goes "If I was not the first, just say I'll be the last". That's what counts.
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