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Old 01-01-2011, 03:45 PM
 
Location: California
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I think the only people here it matters to are strictly religious folks. They usually marry very young (18-21) and the only people they are exposed to are within their church or bible college community. I know a couple people like that although I'm not sure that they really care about virginity...but their parents certainly care and do everything in their power to get them wed before "something bad" happens.
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Old 01-01-2011, 04:52 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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.............my best friend is virgin too.......and im not fat...and i was asked to be model of some famous photographer......i really dont think i am ugly....and my friend is quite cute too......so it's even hard too keep the virginity.........

yes ,i thought chinese guys maybe really spoiled...
i dont know.since this topic.i will loose my virginity after i decide marry a foreign guy i think.
You are probably the only 2 virgins unless you are from a small village. Nobody I know is a virgin after college.

If Chinese guys try to sleep with their girlfriends how can they still expect to marry a virgin? That is ridiculous...

I wouldn't necessarily go for a foreign guy to solve this problem. There are reasonable and nice Chinese guys out there. Foreign guys might not care that you slept with others but a few of them will still see women as a conquest. You should just go with whoever treats you best.
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Old 01-01-2011, 06:48 PM
 
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You are probably the only 2 virgins unless you are from a small village. Nobody I know is a virgin after college.

If Chinese guys try to sleep with their girlfriends how can they still expect to marry a virgin? That is ridiculous...

I wouldn't necessarily go for a foreign guy to solve this problem. There are reasonable and nice Chinese guys out there. Foreign guys might not care that you slept with others but a few of them will still see women as a conquest. You should just go with whoever treats you best.
...........im from shanghai.................
yes...they do want.....but wont give u so much pressure as european guys do...

problem now is....i like a german guy now..but he treat me really not good.
and he want make love with me...
i really want to leave him...but just can not make the step..
i tried know new guys.but still miss him a lot...
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Old 01-01-2011, 06:58 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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No. not any more. She doesn't even need to be the "tightest" bulb in the box; being able to get her girl friends involved is more important in modern times.
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Old 01-02-2011, 08:54 AM
 
Location: M.E
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I do care ! I want her virgin.
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Old 01-02-2011, 10:07 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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Are you going to leave her a virgin or is her "value" going to be affected afterward when she isn't a virgin anymore?

For comparison and contrast, new car resale value drops by several thousand dollars after you buy it and drive it off the lot.
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Old 01-02-2011, 11:12 AM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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No. not any more. She doesn't even need to be the "tightest" bulb in the box; being able to get her girl friends involved is more important in modern times.
Daniel you are sick. Not all modern girls are into 3 way sex.
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Old 01-02-2011, 11:55 AM
 
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= =i am really curious...
coz i am chinese,
and i asked this question for some chinese male friends and european male friends...the answer is really different....

chinese guys care about virgin a lot....some of them wont marry virgin...some of them can accept not virgin...but prefer virgin...some of them even think i am disgutsing talk about sex....

european guys think it is crazy as a old virgin...they can not accept a relationship with no real sex...one of them even think i make him confused and he think if i dont do real sex,then i can not close to guys and can not accept their kiss...i can not expect for love from european guys if i dont do real sex.....

what's ur idea?
don't care as long as her list of previous men doesn't strech 3 figures or something. I'd say it's good if she had a couple of guys before and kind of played herself off a bit so she A) realises how good I am... B) Doesnt wonder whats out there.

I would never marry someone without sleeping with her first, gotta check what's under the hood before purchase if you catch the analogy.

That said, I could definatly fall in love with someone before the act, though I couldn't go on in a relationship too long before things get's a bit hot and heavy.

I take it ur a chinese girl here in europe. If you're cute/hot you may very well let the guy work for it... if not, well i'd go for the sex first and see what develops way.
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Old 01-02-2011, 02:02 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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Daniel you are sick. Not all modern girls are into 3 way sex.
Resorting to a straw man argument to make a point does not inspire any confidence in your sincerity and makes you seem as being judgmental, without a cause.

being able to get her girl friends involved is more important in modern times. Why do you think her being able to get her girl friends involved is wrong in modern times?
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Old 01-02-2011, 02:06 PM
 
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I don't know how comon 3-ways are outside of the porn industry over there in america, but I only know 2 people who've even had 3ways. This seems more like a pornfantasy that could become real sometime in the future if I'm lucky than a regular thing to me.
What advantage could there possibly be for a girl to share a guy with another girl? I don't see what motivates it from a womens perspective.
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