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Old 12-29-2010, 02:18 AM
 
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= =i am really curious...
coz i am chinese,
and i asked this question for some chinese male friends and european male friends...the answer is really different....

chinese guys care about virgin a lot....some of them wont marry virgin...some of them can accept not virgin...but prefer virgin...some of them even think i am disgutsing talk about sex....

european guys think it is crazy as a old virgin...they can not accept a relationship with no real sex...one of them even think i make him confused and he think if i dont do real sex,then i can not close to guys and can not accept their kiss...i can not expect for love from european guys if i dont do real sex.....

what's ur idea?
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Old 12-29-2010, 07:54 AM
 
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Yes, I care : she'd rather NOT be a virgin, because I heard thru the grapevine that virgins are not good lovers!
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Old 12-29-2010, 08:23 AM
 
Location: Portland, Oregon
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no i dont really care at all.
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Old 12-29-2010, 08:24 AM
 
Location: Kerkrade, Limburg, Netherlands
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I kinda do, it's not like I like the idea that she had sex with a guy already, but atleast she has experience and doesn't care for problem about ''making this step''.
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Old 12-29-2010, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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The world is not China. I don't think most men in North America or Europe would give it much thought. Hell, I'm 29 years old. I stand a better chance of winning the lotto than finding a virginal woman. That said, if I like the girl to the point I want to marry her, I would not care.
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Old 12-29-2010, 10:43 AM
 
Location: colorado
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Originally Posted by pariscat View Post
= =i am really curious...
coz i am chinese,
and i asked this question for some chinese male friends and european male friends...the answer is really different....

chinese guys care about virgin a lot....some of them wont marry virgin...some of them can accept not virgin...but prefer virgin...some of them even think i am disgutsing talk about sex....

european guys think it is crazy as a old virgin...they can not accept a relationship with no real sex...one of them even think i make him confused and he think if i dont do real sex,then i can not close to guys and can not accept their kiss...i can not expect for love from european guys if i dont do real sex.....

what's ur idea?


Ok Im not a guy..But I do know here in U.S.A..most men want women who knows what they are doing.
Who wants a fish in bed.??
I never met a man who said I wish I had a virgin.
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Old 12-29-2010, 11:15 AM
 
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The world is not China. I don't think most men in North America or Europe would give it much thought. Hell, I'm 29 years old. I stand a better chance of winning the lotto than finding a virginal woman. That said, if I like the girl to the point I want to marry her, I would not care.
...i never said the world is china......
that's another interesting topic i think.
coz china never say world is china....i think that is ur govement trying to put in ur head this idea all the time....
but i really dont care about politic.....
govement always use people to fight....
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Old 12-29-2010, 11:17 AM
 
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Ok Im not a guy..But I do know here in U.S.A..most men want women who knows what they are doing.
Who wants a fish in bed.??
I never met a man who said I wish I had a virgin.
..............i asked a lot chinese guys...almost every one care.............
interesting....
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Old 12-29-2010, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Texas
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I don't think being a virgin makes you automatically bad in bed.
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Old 12-29-2010, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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Isn't it more important that the girl you marry remain faithfull to her husband after the marriage? I can't change what someone did before I met them. I would hope though that after being married the couple would remember to be true to each other.
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