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Listen up, as you know, I do not try to please EVERYBODY in these forums.
If you want a friend, buy a dog.
For the ladies:
If you are a lady who says "all men are dogs". Then whose fault is it that you keep on attracting losers?
You are surrounded by decent guys ALL the time and for some reason you are not dating decent guys.
There is something wrong with YOU that you keep on attracting these losers and until you realize that the problem is YOU, you will keep on making the same mistakes over and over again.
So I don't want to hear it.
You CHOOSE to go on dates with losers and get into relationships with them and then you hate ALL men for your lousy choices.
Now for the guys:
You whine and complain how you can't get dates but have you actually looked in the mirror?
If you want quality women, YOU have to be quality youself.
If you have to make more money, dress better, wear better cologne or have better haircuts then DO IT!
If the women in your area suck, then TRAVEL. No one is holding a gun to your head and telling you to live in the same place EVERYDAY.
If the women in your area are attracted to losers, then go somewhere else where the women are BETTER quality.
Only YOU can make yourself happy, not anyone else.
If you are a lady who says "all men are dogs". Then whose fault is it that you keep on attracting losers?
You are surrounded by decent guys ALL the time and for some reason you are not dating decent guys.
There is something wrong with YOU that you keep on attracting these losers and until you realize that the problem is YOU, you will keep on making the same mistakes over and over again.
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Now for the guys:
You whine and complain how you can't get dates but have you actually looked in the mirror?
If you want quality women, YOU have to be quality youself.
If you have to make more money, dress better, wear better cologne or have better haircuts then DO IT!
Perhaps the problem with the women who complain is that they mistake money, clothes, cologne, and hairstyle to be the marks of quality.
And perhaps the men they meet are losers because they, too, think that such things are the marks of quality and therefore don't take it upon themselves to work on their character.
Perhaps the problem with the women who complain is that they mistake money, clothes, cologne, and hairstyle to be the marks of quality.
And perhaps the men they meet are losers because they, too, think that such things are the marks of quality and therefore don't take it upon themselves to work on their character.
Irony, grasshopper.
Very true. If I wear a suit every time we date, that won't dictate how I treat you. The clothes, money, hairstyle, cologne do not make the person.
Perhaps the problem with the women who complain is that they mistake money, clothes, cologne, and hairstyle to be the marks of quality.
And perhaps the men they meet are losers because they, too, think that such things are the marks of quality and therefore don't take it upon themselves to work on their character.
Irony, grasshopper.
Whatever it is, the women need to look within themselves to figure out the problem.
If I ask out 20 women, using the same approach, and 18 of those 20 go out on a date with me, then its pretty much those 2 women that don't care for me for whatever reason.
If I ask out 20 women, using the same approach, and 1 out of 20 goes out with me, then its pretty much something I'm doing wrong.
Very true. If I wear a suit every time we date, that won't dictate how I treat you. The clothes, money, hairstyle, cologne do not make the person.
But they DO make you want to take a second look at a total stranger you know nothing else about. While people may open a book even if they don't like the cover, that's not usually the case in human relations. Besides, the cover IS important as well.
Whatever it is, the women need to look within themselves to figure out the problem.
You missed my point.
If you're saying that a man only needs to get his hair cut, buy some clothes, and slap on some cologne to be considered quality, you're not exactly advancing your cause. Instead, you are fostering the very mindset that you claim to hate, because you are encouraging men to be superficial.
It takes more than trappings--a fact that many men seem to be oblivious to. Just because you look nice and have a little money, that doesn't mean you get to be a douchebag. A well-groomed loser is still a loser.
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