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Normally I consider it a compliment. However, this past weekend I was at the mall with my son and a random stranger came up to me and said, "Wow...you're quite a MILF!" My son responded, "Mom, what's a MILF?" I had to think of something to say on the spot. Needless to say, it was an awkward moment and not one in which being called a MILF would make me smile.
Otherwise, though, I DO consider it a compliment.
Why? your son is gonna learn the term before he's 10 anyways.
I cant think of a better example of a MILF than you sweetie if I were to use that expression. Or Seeniorita. Or Ms. Neemy Or..............BUT! I feel that if we allow our young men to freely use such expressions we are basically telling them that there are no boundaries. That nothing or nobody deserves respect and esteem. If I were to choose just one category that should be held above all others when it comes to respect and deference, it would be motherhood. Please dont take me wrong. I love to compliment and flirt with beautiful women! Mothers or not. But that flirting will never involve the fact that she is a mother. In a world where apparently "anything goes" I guess I am becoming a relic.But I will hold steadfast to my belief in the sanctity of motherhood.
Aww, thank you, Capt! "Ms. Neemy" has a nice ring to it. I appreciate what you're saying, too. Never thought of it that way!
I've been called a MILF before, and I wasn't offended by it. It was just a playful thing, and I didn't really take it too seriously.
i dont want ANYONE under age 30 looking at me. actually, i only want hubby to look at me, but i cant help what others do. having a child (and yes, a teen IS STILL a child think of you in that way is NOT flattering - its DISTURBING
i think ill have to agree to that one too. I am secure in myself, in my age and in my appearance and do not need to be 'validated' by some hormone driven idiot
If you don't want anyone under 30 checking you out, I take it you're well over 30.
You might think it's disturbing for a teen to be attracted to you, but it's actually a compliment. It's a fact that people become less attractive as they age. If a teen is attracted to you, it means you managed to stay attractive. Take it as a compliment.
When you use the word disturbing, I take that personally. I admit I'm attracted to MILFs, so I take offense when you say that's disturbing.
You know what's more disturbing? If someone is a pedophile. That's way worse than a teen being attracted to MILFs.
When I'm 30+ years old, I would take it as a compliment if a 19 year old girl was attracted to me.
Just because someone is secure in themself doesn't mean they're attractive. Of course, I'm not talking about you personally since I don't know what you look like. This is just a general statement.
There was a fat couple at my high school that were attracted to each other but no one else was attracted to them. They were secure in themselves, but that didn't make them attractive.
At least some MILFs realize it's a compliment to be called a MILF. One word: cougar
Well said Capt! Men of your stature are indeed a rare breed. It's among the many reasons why you have so many women fans here.....me being one of the biggest!
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I cant think of a better example of a MILF than you sweetie if I were to use that expression. Or Seeniorita. Or Ms. Neemy Or..............BUT! I feel that if we allow our young men to freely use such expressions we are basically telling them that there are no boundaries. That nothing or nobody deserves respect and esteem. If I were to choose just one category that should be held above all others when it comes to respect and deference, it would be motherhood. Please dont take me wrong. I love to compliment and flirt with beautiful women! Mothers or not. But that flirting will never involve the fact that she is a mother. In a world where apparently "anything goes" I guess I am becoming a relic.But I will hold steadfast to my belief in the sanctity of motherhood.
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Capt. Dan IS awesome
Well, it's well said Captain! I think when my man says it to me, I don't find it offensive. It's more offensive when it's someone young calls me out like that on the street.
If you don't want anyone under 30 checking you out, I take it you're well over 30.
You might think it's disturbing for a teen to be attracted to you, but it's actually a compliment. It's a fact that people become less attractive as they age. If a teen is attracted to you, it means you managed to stay attractive. Take it as a compliment.
When you use the word disturbing, I take that personally. I admit I'm attracted to MILFs, so I take offense when you say that's disturbing.
You know what's more disturbing? If someone is a pedophile. That's way worse than a teen being attracted to MILFs.
When I'm 30+ years old, I would take it as a compliment if a 19 year old girl was attracted to me.
Just because someone is secure in themself doesn't mean they're attractive. Of course, I'm not talking about you personally since I don't know what you look like. This is just a general statement.
There was a fat couple at my high school that were attracted to each other but no one else was attracted to them. They were secure in themselves, but that didn't make them attractive.
At least some MILFs realize it's a compliment to be called a MILF. One word: cougar
I think it's a little bit offensive because it's like saying, "Oh you're beautiful...for an old woman." I don't know how I would feel when I'm at that age.
If you don't want anyone under 30 checking you out, I take it you're well over 30.
You might think it's disturbing for a teen to be attracted to you, but it's actually a compliment. It's a fact that people become less attractive as they age. If a teen is attracted to you, it means you managed to stay attractive. Take it as a compliment.
When you use the word disturbing, I take that personally. I admit I'm attracted to MILFs, so I take offense when you say that's disturbing.
You know what's more disturbing? If someone is a pedophile. That's way worse than a teen being attracted to MILFs.
When I'm 30+ years old, I would take it as a compliment if a 19 year old girl was attracted to me.
Just because someone is secure in themself doesn't mean they're attractive. Of course, I'm not talking about you personally since I don't know what you look like. This is just a general statement.
There was a fat couple at my high school that were attracted to each other but no one else was attracted to them. They were secure in themselves, but that didn't make them attractive.
At least some MILFs realize it's a compliment to be called a MILF. One word: cougar
There was a cougar that had a thing for me...
im 33 but thanks for asking. i like MEN not BOYS. I didnt date 16 year olds when i WAS 16.
my photo is in the photo thread somewhere. for what it matters.
i dont want ANYONE, regardless of age, to think of me as a piece of meat. it is disgusting, disrespectful, immature and chauvinistic.
I think it's a little bit offensive because it's like saying, "Oh you're beautiful...for an old woman." I don't know how I would feel when I'm at that age.
No, it's more like saying "you're getting old, but you don't look old"
No, it's more like saying "you're getting old, but you don't look old"
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I appreciate what you're saying, too. Never thought of it that way!
