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Old 01-07-2011, 01:31 PM
 
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Any reasonably intelligent man can spot a golddigger from a mile away. It's not rocket science. If they're vapid, inarticulate, clinging, gushy and haven't a clue about anything on planet earth, they are probably a golddigger. Oh, and if they ask you what kind of car you have and how much money you make, it's even more of a dead give away.
What about men who ask women " How much money do you make " ? OR " What do you do for a living ? "

You don't think male gold diggers exist ?
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Old 01-07-2011, 01:36 PM
 
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If you want to "outsmart" a gold digger it's not really that hard. A lot of losers do it and ruin their life in the process.

A good friend of mine said once "just keep digging them until they find out you have no gold". He was joking btw

Get a car loan. Buy a nice car. Or drive your dad's car. Live in your mom's basement, or a trailer, or with a roommate.

Spend all your money on clothes and cars. Always look fabulous and rich. Don't bother putting any money in the bank or buying a house or anything. Focus on your image, not your actual assets.

Be seen in public a lot. Go to the clubs and buy people drinks. Always looking good. When you date a woman always show her a good time, but never show her your house.

As far as overnights go they can happen at your house or a hotel or something. Take her on little "trips". She'll think it's great that you spoil her by taking her places.

Most gold-diggers aren't that smart. If they were they'd make their own gold instead of settling for trinkets.
This is silly ! Why live in a trailer or being someone's roomie ? Why pretend to be something you are not ?

Why not buy the house you want and live in it ? Buy the clothes you want and wear them ?

Who said you had to give ANYONE anything from a quarter for a phone call to everything in your bank account .

Don't fear gold diggers. Avoid them.
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Old 01-07-2011, 02:07 PM
 
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This is silly ! Why live in a trailer or being someone's roomie ? Why pretend to be something you are not ?

Why not buy the house you want and live in it ? Buy the clothes you want and wear them ?

Who said you had to give ANYONE anything from a quarter for a phone call to everything in your bank account .

Don't fear gold diggers. Avoid them.
I never said it was smart.
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Old 01-07-2011, 02:15 PM
 
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What about men who ask women " How much money do you make " ? OR " What do you do for a living ? "

You don't think male gold diggers exist ?
Hell yes they exist!. There is more than one way to skin a cat. All it takes is a little observation and baiting them with carefully thought-out questions and you will improve your odds of catching them every time. Has anyone ever been dumped because you didn't live up to the other partners financial expectations? They may not word it that way but it all means the same when you are dumped after they see what vehicle you are driving and other petty s*** like that. Congratulations, you just caught one!
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Old 01-07-2011, 02:19 PM
 
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What about men who ask women " How much money do you make " ? OR " What do you do for a living ? "

You don't think male gold diggers exist ?
Of course male gold diggers exist as much as women who take the initiative to approach a stranger, ask for his phone number, ask him out, take him out for a nice dinner/wine, etc. Which is, a minimal.
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Old 01-07-2011, 02:24 PM
 
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one thing I want to avoid is being a victim of a gold digger like most disparate man and women do how can you out think a gold digger.
Perfect timing:

Fooling Golddiggers « Citizen Renegade
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Old 01-07-2011, 02:53 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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one thing I want to avoid is being a victim of a gold digger like most disparate man and women do how can you out think a gold digger.
Don't be desperate. Gold diggers can smell desperation for miles (like sharks w/blood)

Don't buy affection. It's free if you know how to get it the right way.

Dont' brag. Most people hate a braggart EXCEPT for a gold digger.....makes their eyes sparkle even brighter.

Be yourself. Start off pretending to be something you aren't is pathetic and childish. You are who you are.....act like it.

This advice goes for men and women because being a gold digger doesn't have a gender rule.
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Old 01-07-2011, 03:29 PM
 
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Be cheap. If she sticks around, she likes you for you. If she bails, you'll know she is in it for the money.
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Old 01-07-2011, 05:57 PM
 
Location: London
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Gold digger Test for Men:
Does she work as a Playboy bunny?
Would you mistake her last boyfriend for her grandfather?
Is Heidi Montag her role model?
Does she have the song 'Material Girl' as her mobile phone ringtone?
You're ugly and she is hot.
You reach into your pocket to get your wallet and find her hand in there instead.
If you take her to McDonald's for dinner she insists upon supersizing her meal deal.
She has a temper tantrum when you talk about holidays and mention the word 'camping'
The first time you had sex you had to pay cash.
Is that the same test for women?
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Old 01-07-2011, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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The thing is that both, a typical girl, a mooch, and a goldigger, will expect the man to take care of expenses. I guess the goldigger will make it more obvious while the typical girl or a mooch will act as if it is the right thing to do?
So, you're basically saying the typical girl is a gold digger? What a prejudiced attitude!
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