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If the guy has Erectile dysfunction its not really his fault and there isnt much you can do about it,some of the Viagra type drugs might work but if they dont you may have to get used to this male affliction. Dont take it personally.
If he doesnt have ED then other problems are the cause
You need to do some research. The causes are most frequently physical, and those physical causes are usually related to being overweight, and smoking.
Every woman, at some point, finds herself in a situation where her man can't get it up. What should a woman do or say in the moment? As women, we always hear what we should never do (like criticize him) but no one advises us on what we should do or say to make him feel better about the event. Advice gents?
believe it or not it happened to me when i was 19 y/o one time. i think it was because of a chemical (illegal) i was doing at the time. she was 24 y/o and attractive too! anyway... i'm convinced if she woulda done some monica lewinsky on me things woulda worked out fine but she didn't. in the long run it was a good thing because she got clingy real fast and we broke it off.
in summary: if you try oral stimulation and it doesn't work then you might have to try some other more advanced techniques that i'm not gonna mention here.
This happened one time to me, but I believe it was due to too much wine or something. It had never happened before, nor has it happened after. He was embarrassed, but I just told him it was fine and we moved on to other places. =) It was all but forgotten about.
I would say to just move right along and don't harp on it. Make it ok for him to not worry about it. You don't need to have some big conversation right there in the heat of it all....
Every woman, at some point, finds herself in a situation where her man can't get it up. What should a woman do or say in the moment? As women, we always hear what we should never do (like criticize him) but no one advises us on what we should do or say to make him feel better about the event. Advice gents?
Have you seen snake charmers from India working cobras up?
Due to a drug that I was on, it had rare side effects such as ed. This happened once while we were going at it. And, I am 31. Very embarrassing. She tried to comfort me, but I got up and walked away in shame. She got upset cause she thought I was only using her for sex. It was a weird relationship. It only lasted another month or two. Now, sadly, we are bitter enemies cause she thought I did something that I didn't. No longer on that drug, so it should not be an issue any further. It was a bad feeling though.
It depends on whether this is an ongoing situation, or if it just occasionally happens in a relationship where things are usually OK. If it's an isolated thing, then you can treat it very lightly. Just say, "Not today, huh? Well, I'm going to want it twice as much tomorrow." But if it happens a lot, then you have to think about medical issues, or psychological ones. Is the guy worrying about something, is he happy in the relationship, that kind of thing.
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