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I have to agree on your standards being too low if this is constantly a problem. Confident/good looking is no substitute for moral values and standards.
This guy is a jerk and disrespectful!
Leave him alone.
I've been in your friends shoes before. Its super uncomfortable and I always knew it wasn't my friends fault. I don't think your friend is mad at you though.
You already know the answer. Delete his phone number. Ignore messages, delete texts, do not go anywhere with him, including out for coffee. He doesn't even deserve a 'break up' conversation.
You want to ask your friend how he behaved -- why? You saw what you saw, you feel what you feel, and your feelings are important and legitimate and you are not wrong. You want to say to your girl friend "did I really see him put his hand on your a** and while you tell me here's a salt shaker for you to rub salt in my open weeping wounds"
You:
"My boyfriends often hit on my close girlfriends, why is that? What is it with me?"
Your standards are too low. Start expecting good behavior, insist on it, and if you don't get it the guy isn't worth your time.
Look, OP. Every guy wants it (unless they're gay). Doesn't mean you have to give over. Let them want it. Don't put out for guys with no integrity. No exceptions.
Best advice here - hands down. He gives us Men a bad name.
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