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Ladies: is a guy who is "touchy-feely" a turn-on or turn-off for you?
I'm talking here, about a guy who freely express his emotions, likes to hug or kiss you a lot, and be overtly affectionate...stuff like that. "Touchy-feely", in a PG-rated way (I'm *not* talking about anything beyond a PG-13 rating at most here, when I say "touchy-feely" )
Thoughts?
ETA: meant, in the example context of a guy, who is hypothetically romantically attracted to you.
Last edited by Phoenix2017; 01-12-2011 at 02:45 PM..
NO! A definite turn-off. To me, being too touchy-feely is creepy. Like maybe he is the controlling type, or he is they type that is so insecure he must feel that he must be on me 24/7 so I won't leave.
NO! A definite turn-off. To me, being too touchy-feely is creepy. Like maybe he is the controlling type, or he is they type that is so insecure he must feel that he must be on me 24/7 so I won't leave.
Lol...perhaps maybe, he just wants to be affectionate with you, or that he cares about you and wants to show it?
Why the automatic assumption, that he would have a negative or base motivation, for doing so?
Lol...perhaps maybe, he just wants to be affectionate with you, or that he cares about you and wants to show it?
Why the automatic assumption, that he would have a negative or base motivation, for doing so?
Hm, maybe I should have written it more clearly. What I had written above is for people who are just meeting/dating for a short time. If it was a long term relationship, then that's different.
I went on a date with a guy who would always try to touch my hand/arm/hair etc. He would always hug. It was so suffocating, and it was obvious that he was just being perverted. I left him quick.
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