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Ok, not proud of this but I've been married for seven years and I've been having an affair for the past eight months. My wife is great but there is just no physical chemistry. I have found someone who I think I'm in love with but is also married. She left her husband last week and wants me to do the same. My wife is great in almost every way but she is more of a great friend than a lover. The added complication is that she is from Australia and desperately wants to move home. No kids.. What to do, heart or head?
That's what you only feel for now.. but that feelings will never be constant. I've been there already.. same thing he told me before... better stop it coz it will totally ruin ur family.
That's what you only feel for now.. but that feelings will never be constant. I've been there already.. same thing he told me before... better stop it coz it will totally ruin ur family.
Hold up. Are you saying you've been the mistress in one of these affairs/love triangles?
Hold up. Are you saying you've been the mistress in one of these affairs/love triangles?
Yeah. We ended our relationship just last week. but now i realized that sometimes its not good to always follow your heart... learn to weigh things and always put your mind over your heart.. emo much!!!!
Ok, not proud of this but I've been married for seven years and I've been having an affair for the past eight months. My wife is great but there is just no physical chemistry. I have found someone who I think I'm in love with but is also married. She left her husband last week and wants me to do the same. My wife is great in almost every way but she is more of a great friend than a lover. The added complication is that she is from Australia and desperately wants to move home. No kids.. What to do, heart or head?
Do your wife a favor and leave, give her the house, car, whatever she wants and go off with your mistress. Your wife can sell what she doesn't need and use the money to start a new life for herself back home. Hopefully with someone who will give her the love and respect that a wife deserves.
yes,you disgust me...go better to australia..one cheater,liar,low life less in usa...and do not bring her hier..such people we do not need...low lifes with no values...how do you call a woman,who brakes somebody's else familly?a low life..she ruined he rfamilly,now she ruins yours...but,better for your wife,she can finally see your real face...in her place i will kick you out in a second...she really deserves better!so much better!!
Ok, not proud of this but I've been married for seven years and I've been having an affair for the past eight months. My wife is great but there is just no physical chemistry. I have found someone who I think I'm in love with but is also married. She left her husband last week and wants me to do the same. My wife is great in almost every way but she is more of a great friend than a lover. The added complication is that she is from Australia and desperately wants to move home. No kids.. What to do, heart or head?
It is not worth it! The bottom line is that if you do not want to respect a commitment it will happen again with somebody else. This falling in love is like the weather. It changes based with mood changes, arrogance, selfishness, etc. When you focus on the word commitment you will do whatever it takes to keep your word to your marriage.
I have been married 37 years now. We as so many couples out there have fallen out of love and got back into love so many times but we are commited to our marriages. Just go and ask some old couple out there on the street as they are helping each other walk along and ask them how many times they have fallen out of love during those long years of marriage and if they are honest they will probably laugh and tell you they have lost count but they stayed commited to their word and it is hard work to keep staying in love. That lady that left her husband, what are the odds she will do the same to you later? You ended the post with a question. I and mine the same. Is your wife worth working to keep her with you? Actually, another question, are you worth for her to stay here with you?
My wife followed me through 32 long years of Army life and we were separated so many times for long periods of time as I did my duty. She stayed taking care of home and I was so happy to get back with her. Do you not thing both of us had the temptation to find somebody else to be happy with? We stuck to our commitment and here we are still feeding our marriage with hard work and with love, take care.
It is not worth it! The bottom line is that if you do not want to respect a commitment it will happen again with somebody else. This falling in love is like the weather. It changes based with mood changes, arrogance, selfishness, etc. When you focus on the word commitment you will do whatever it takes to keep your word to your marriage.
I have been married 37 years now. We as so many couples out there have fallen out of love and got back into love so many times but we are commited to our marriages. Just go and ask some old couple out there on the street as they are helping each other walk along and ask them how many times they have fallen out of love during those long years of marriage and if they are honest they will probably laugh and tell you they have lost count but they stayed commited to their word and it is hard work to keep staying in love. That lady that left her husband, what are the odds she will do the same to you later? You ended the post with a question. I and mine the same. Is your wife worth working to keep her with you? Actually, another question, are you worth for her to stay here with you?
My wife followed me through 32 long years of Army life and we were separated so many times for long periods of time as I did my duty. She stayed taking care of home and I was so happy to get back with her. Do you not thing both of us had the temptation to find somebody else to be happy with? We stuck to our commitment and here we are still feeding our marriage with hard work and with love, take care.
yes,you disgust me...go better to australia..one cheater,liar,low life less in usa...and do not bring her hier..such people we do not need...low lifes with no values...how do you call a woman,who brakes somebody's else familly?a low life..she ruined he rfamilly,now she ruins yours...but,better for your wife,she can finally see your real face...in her place i will kick you out in a second...she really deserves better!so much better!!
Yes, thank you for your incredibly articulate and intelligently thought out words of advice
Do you think physical chemistry will last for longer than 7 years with your mistress? It seems to me that you are enamored with that fresh-new feeling one gets early on in an intimate relationship. Eventually that fades and you do have a great friend on your hands. It takes work to keep seeing a long-term partner as a lover - work on both your parts. This is true for almost everyone! Sure, you can dump your wife and move on to the new one, but eventually the physical chemistry will fade there too. You need to grow up, or you will be doomed to repeat this terrible loop.
^^^I wish I had understood this when I was younger^^^
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