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Most men live in paroxysms of delusion about their wives and spouses, who in truth gave the milk away for free and "settled" with him (i.e. made him buy the cow). Others are luckier still, and never want for a bedmate, purely by virtue of the attraction they had from birth. All of these worlds are meaningless and all of them are incidents of particles mutually, confusedly etching out some mode of living.
If love exists -- and I have little reason to believe it does -- it's only among the very old. A couple so old that they've outlived any genetic use for each other, but still continue to keep each other company and care for one another. That might reasonably be called love. All else is shifts in a genetic ocean. And entirely meaningless.
Wow.
You are sounding more and more like a troll.
But on the off chance you are for real I want to say how sorry I am for you - truly. You obviously had some really bad things happen/bad examples in your life to bring you to your outlandish skewered conclusions.
If you are not interested in overcoming your issues, please at least go get a vasectomy.
Thanks for the out of nowhere insult that wouldn't be out of place on a pro-eugenics neo-Nazi board, but I have no problem getting women. They all fall for the same lines delivered the same way.
No, we don’t all fall for the same stuff. That's asinine. Some women fall for the tricks and games, but we are not all the same. We don’t all find the same things attractive, nor do men.
No, we don’t all fall for the same stuff. That's asinine. Some women fall for the tricks and games, but we are not all the same. We don’t all find the same things attractive, nor do men.
First sign of faulty logic - the use of qualifiers such as "all", "every" and "the great majority".
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Yes. My husband is not bland.
And for Phil, there is nothing inherently wrong with being bland. If a person is content with his romantic lot--matched with a similarly bland companion, or with someone who likes blandness, or just happy being alone--then there is no problem at all. But the guys who just can't figure out why their niceness is not scoring with the ladies, it might be time for them to honestly assess their blandness. Being overly agreeable and accommodating is not interesting or attractive. I don't think you disagree with me, though. You don't strike me as a bland person who may be Too Nice.
This is a common criticism in men, but I find women who are overly agreeable and accommodating really bland as well. I'd prefer someone who is decisive and doesn't take ****, not a doormat who follows me around.
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Don't have time to read the whole thread now, but I'll say I'm the opposite...
Every says I'm a 'nice guy' (in a sincere way) but I don't really think I am. Guess they don't know the real me, lol (nah I'm not mean, bad, rude etc, I am outwardly nice, but I don't think I'm ultimately a great person, no morally better than average). I don't go around saying 'I'm so nice, why won't girls date me?' I think that's just lame. It'd be fair to say, 'I'm so nice, why does everyone treat me so poorly?' But dating isn't really about nice, unfortunately.
Someone I know just lost her husband in a car accident on Saturday night. They have two young children. She is devastated. But I guess that is only because she lost her retirement policy, right? And I guess she should consider herself lucky that she didn't have time to get sick of her husband (because we all know that ALWAYS happens, GMAFB)...I guess she will miss him terribly because they were just random particles that happen to be together.
Love does exist and it's amazing. But it hurts like ****ing hell when that is ripped away in an instant. Tangy, you cannot possibly understand the length and breadth of love when you go around using women like a bull steer.
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