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Old 01-21-2011, 07:35 PM
 
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I'm tired of being judged on my looks or personality. I'm wondering if there's a point where I earn so much that women will like me regardless of the other two traits.

Looks is 90% genetic, and gym won't help if your face is ugly. Personality is just about playing games which is stupid. The personality you have dealing with your boss or friends is usually not the right one to use against girls. I'm not interested in wasting time on improving my "game".

I feel that if I'm a successful person then I should also get the girls. But it seems that the skills required to get girls is totally different from the skills required for the rest of life. So I'm wondering if it's true that if I'm successful then I'll have girls going after me. Honestly, I'm not hot nor do I have a charming personality.
Wow. There's so much wrong here I don't even know where to start.

1) Being in shape ABSOLUTELY makes a difference. If you aren't in shape, many gals don't t care what your face looks like. I'm one of them.
2) Personality is NOT about playing games. You've got this bass-askwards.
3) Being successful is not a "pass" for getting girls. Please.
4) Where on earth did you pick up this nonsense?
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Old 01-21-2011, 07:36 PM
 
Location: London, U.K.
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Cont: this happens all of the time. What else could it be other than money?
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Old 01-21-2011, 07:46 PM
 
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No surprise there.

Do you have a problem with someone wanting more than sex? What do you think I meant when I said more than sex? I can tell you it is not about money for me or the women I know.
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Old 01-21-2011, 07:49 PM
 
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To the OP it takes more than success to get a woman. You say that you are not hot, and do not have a charming personality...well, why would you think that money alone would guarantee that you would get women? If you are looking for women that only want money, prostitutes sound like your best option. Instead of thinking money is the answer, improve your attitude and get fit. Maybe women will be more interested then.
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Old 01-21-2011, 07:52 PM
 
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Yes and Yes!

Making a lot of money will allow you to enjoy sex with the most beautiful women regarless of looks and personality. The only wome who will disagree are the unattractive ones.

Have you seen the rapper lil Wayne, his women are hott.

Also, women for the most part don't care how you make your money either, as long as you have, your in there
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Old 01-21-2011, 08:07 PM
 
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Yes and Yes!

Making a lot of money will allow you to enjoy sex with the most beautiful women regarless of looks and personality. The only wome who will disagree are the unattractive ones.

Have you seen the rapper lil Wayne, his women are hott.

Also, women for the most part don't care how you make your money either, as long as you have, your in there
Yes, and you know this from your vast lack of experience with women.
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Old 01-21-2011, 08:27 PM
 
Location: London, U.K.
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As long as the guys got a decent personality, money trumps looks and eveything else. I say this from experience. The ony exception i've found is when in your late teens, hot girls go for looks then because all of the guys their age are broke.
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Old 01-21-2011, 09:39 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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I think a petty cash fund for such purpose could go along way; because, you can always find something interesting to do when you have enough money.
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Old 01-21-2011, 09:56 PM
 
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As long as the guys got a decent personality, money trumps looks and eveything else. I say this from experience. The ony exception i've found is when in your late teens, hot girls go for looks then because all of the guys their age are broke.
And that's very specific experience. That's not to say that an accomplished woman doesn't want a man with his shyte together, but suggestions that lil boy rapper (whoever made the comment about whoever the rapper is) can get any woman is off the mark. People typically end up with those of the same cloth.
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Old 01-21-2011, 09:59 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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What if she likes to be nude?
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