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The model I got used to is very old fashioned (I am not from the US) and I can not have relationships with the people of my age at all, just because they are very different and have different standarts and approach towards relationships. But at the same time I want to have a healthy family with at least 2-3 children with the guy of my age. I don't believe in big age gaps relationships, my previous husband was 10 years older and it didn't work.
Any ideas of how to do this?!
The model I got used to is very old fashioned (I am not from the US) and I can not have relationships with the people of my age at all, just because they are very different and have different standarts and approach towards relationships. But at the same time I want to have a healthy family with at least 2-3 children with the guy of my age. I don't believe in big age gaps relationships, my previous husband was 10 years older and it didn't work.
Any ideas of how to do this?!
There are many religious sects in the US that value the traditional role of men and women. Also, you might find that rural people (farmers, ranchers), tend to think more along those lines than the type of people you encounter in large metropolitan and urban settings.
I am not a farm person, was raised in a big city. I have heard of Amishes but I am not sure I can live this kind of life because according to what I have read about them it sounds like leaving a lot of other things behind and I am something in the middle.
Sometimes when I meet older couples I feel so upset that I wasn't born 40 years earlier
Maybe you can find someone from your country that is here. I think certain groups of immigrants tend to be more traditional in their male-female roles. Either that or you just have to find a very traditional man. I agree with others that some religious men might be more inclined to be like that.
I am looking "there", too. But as for "there" there are other difficulties such as the number of men and women is different after the WWII(there are more women than men) and most nice men are already married by the age of 30. If they are not there are men with some kind of problems, like alcohol, abusive behavior, etc. Women at 30 are already quite "old" as there are many young college girls that are looking for "partners", too.
The model I got used to is very old fashioned (I am not from the US) and I can not have relationships with the people of my age at all, just because they are very different and have different standarts and approach towards relationships. But at the same time I want to have a healthy family with at least 2-3 children with the guy of my age. I don't believe in big age gaps relationships, my previous husband was 10 years older and it didn't work.
Any ideas of how to do this?!
as much of a little cutie as you are you should be able to get whatever you want. take your time.
Sweetie the 1950s are long gone. Maybe you should try to modern up.
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