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Old 01-23-2011, 06:54 AM
 
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now you all will be accused of ganging up on the guy
When it is the same old thread with the same old problem from people who refuse to learn... Sometimes you have to dumb it down enough for some to hopefully get a clue.
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Old 01-23-2011, 10:41 AM
 
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What is it with a handful of you guys on here! Really. You keep on trolling this forum with assinine threads all really pertaining to the same topic. GET OFF YOUR ARSES AND LIVE LIFE! Stop thinking about how you can score with women, how to find a women, how to act around women, etc.

Get a hobby, live life to the fullest, keep yourselves busy.

If it's sexual tensions and that's all you can think about and your life is revolving around it. Masturbate and move on with life. Jeez.
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Old 01-23-2011, 11:05 AM
 
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I'm going to send a generic message to 100 women and I'll see what happens. Since there aren't that many women around me using OkCupid, I'll have to send it to a variety of women rather than the just attractive ones.
Form letters are one reason I stopped using dating sites after a few months.
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Old 01-23-2011, 01:56 PM
 
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I'm going to send a generic message to 100 women and I'll see what happens. Since there aren't that many women around me using OkCupid, I'll have to send it to a variety of women rather than the just attractive ones.

I think 100 women is enough to estimate the response rate. I think I should get 10% so 100 is good enough.

I'm doing it in 12-24 hours so that you guys can post suggestions as to what I should say.

Okay, I've done my first few and there's a small problem. I can't help but read the profiles of the girls I find attractive but I really don't want to limit it to the attractive ones since there's not that many women.
You mean a form letter like this :

Hi, my name is Arnold and I am looking for a perfect women.

She must be between 5 foot 2 and 5 foot 4 . No fatties. I want a women between 102 and 112 lbs. Although I myself am 354 pounds and quite short ...Around 5 foot 8.

But I am a great guy ! I am a great kisser ! A GREAT lover ! Although I am really still a virgin . But I don't want you to think lesser of me since I have only kissed my gramma 2 times.

I want an emotionally stable women although I myself have been in and out of mental institutions since 5 years old. I am fine as long as I take my 6 medications. Just don't get me mad ! Whatever you DO !

Please no cheaters, liars, gold diggers, daddys girls, buddhists, unemployed, materialistic,poor, broke, undesirables.

I look forward to walking on the beach at sunset with you. But not past 8 pm because my mama says go to bed early !
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Old 01-23-2011, 02:12 PM
 
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You mean a form letter like this :

Hi, my name is Arnold and I am looking for a perfect women.

She must be between 5 foot 2 and 5 foot 4 . No fatties. I want a women between 102 and 112 lbs. Although I myself am 354 pounds and quite short ...Around 5 foot 8.

But I am a great guy ! I am a great kisser ! A GREAT lover ! Although I am really still a virgin . But I don't want you to think lesser of me since I have only kissed my gramma 2 times.

I want an emotionally stable women although I myself have been in and out of mental institutions since 5 years old. I am fine as long as I take my 6 medications. Just don't get me mad ! Whatever you DO !

Please no cheaters, liars, gold diggers, daddys girls, buddhists, unemployed, materialistic,poor, broke, undesirables.

I look forward to walking on the beach at sunset with you. But not past 8 pm because my mama says go to bed early !

How true! And he started up another thread to correspondent with this thread!
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Old 01-23-2011, 02:35 PM
 
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I'm going to send a generic message to 100 women and I'll see what happens. Since there aren't that many women around me using OkCupid, I'll have to send it to a variety of women rather than the just attractive ones.

I think 100 women is enough to estimate the response rate. I think I should get 10% so 100 is good enough.

I'm doing it in 12-24 hours so that you guys can post suggestions as to what I should say.

Okay, I've done my first few and there's a small problem. I can't help but read the profiles of the girls I find attractive but I really don't want to limit it to the attractive ones since there's not that many women.
You've created a thread to find questions to ask a DATE, and you don't know how to structure an opening impersonal EMAIL message. A date you'll eventually go on and won't have access to someone in your ear feeding you things to say.

You should start with the less attractive ones first and then graduate to the beauty, I don't think you should even go for average lookin chicks go all out for the ones with armpit hair, unibrows and mustaches first.

Beauty won't stand for a tongue tied goofball and your ego won't stand that kinda rejection.
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Old 01-23-2011, 05:51 PM
 
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UPDATE:

I was only able to send about 15 of the generic ones, and 3 customized ones. I got 3 replies so far, I haven't read them yet but at this point even rejections would provide useful experience.

I couldn't find 100 decent girls between the ages of 18-20 so that's why I only sent 15.
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Old 01-23-2011, 05:52 PM
 
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UPDATE:

I was only able to send about 15 of the generic ones, and 3 customized ones. I got 3 replies so far, I haven't read them yet but at this point even rejections would provide useful experience.

I couldn't find 100 decent girls between the ages of 18-20 so that's why I only sent 15.
Oh good grief.
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Old 01-23-2011, 06:08 PM
 
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Masturbate and move on with life.
When I was young, my elders used to quote the likes of Plato and Aristotle to me as guidance. It's a sign of the times that nowadays the best advice you one can usually give is the above quote ...
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Old 01-23-2011, 06:27 PM
 
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UPDATE:

I was only able to send about 15 of the generic ones, and 3 customized ones. I got 3 replies so far, I haven't read them yet but at this point even rejections would provide useful experience.

I couldn't find 100 decent girls between the ages of 18-20 so that's why I only sent 15.

WTF! Hello, anyone in there??? Yahoo...earth to Malkiel.
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