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First I am so sorry for your cancer,
And how dare your husband to do this to you, that is so wrong, and at time like this you dont need added grief to you.
I do hope the best for you.
OP said she was not married to the baby daddy. It's her boyfriend.
Oh ok..thanks for clarifying..but that was wrong of him
He was wrong, and should be held accountable. The lack of men marrying their significant other that they then get pregnant if reprehensable. All parties involved are fools for not taking resposnabilities for their actions.
We have been together for 5 years and 2 children together and live what I thought was pretty happily.
A few months after the birth of our second child, I was diagnosed with cancer, had biopsies, surgeries and lots of tests. He "reconnected" with some Jr high girlfriend and said that they were friends. I read their emails flirting, saying good night, etc. It seemed to come more from him than her. I found a picture of her cleavage on his cell phone when they were at lunch. I don't think that he cheated because I caught him before he had the chance, told her husband. I don't think that she was willing to cheat on her husband. Then he sent her a picture of his penis. I flipped out at this point because I was battling cancer. Thyroid cancer usually isn't deadly but at this point I realized that he is a sociopath and I might as well be dead because if I stay he will eventually cheat, right? But if I go then I am a lonely broke single mother? What a life? I also want to add that having 2 children and cancer in a few years, I have gained 25 lbs... maybe he isn't attracted to me anymore? I am trying to loose weight but I am so miserable.
Then he had another girl coworkers number hidden in his phone and I saw a text that wasn't really inappropriate but why did he disguise it? Now I am flipping out that he is try to sleep with her too, and I have NOTHING to base that on except for thats what I am expecting now!
HELP
He's a Pig. Pack him up and head him out. You deserve better.
Koale
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