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Typically I wouldn't, but if that's all the other person talks about and how good they were orally, but basically they didn't practce what they preached on a sexual level, would you correct them so they wouldn't make the same mistake and disappoint someone else. Or leave them to their own devices to think they are the best you ever had.
If they asked me if something felt good and it didn’t, I would tell them. I would not volunteer the information. A man’s ego is way too fragile and we are the ones that have to deal with the panic and drama.
yeah I didn't want to hurt his feelings but he just thinks he is such a pro in that area, so he will have suggestions for how much i would enjoy it if i did certain things he thinks will please me so i try them but it doesn't work. So then he uses the competition method.."oh i bet you can't .....or "come on that's all you got"...I'm like dude you can't even harldly keep it up, ejaculates 2 minuets once we started and if i try to help you say you don't need me that you can do this..wtf is that about...i wanna get mine too..
Anybody who makes blanket sexual statements has no clue because if you are truly an aficionado of sex, you would know everyone is different with specific needs.
Not that I would know or anything.
A good lover knows how to get into your head before your body. They take time to discover what you respond to.
Really I don't think you need to ask questions if you are paying attention. If you have ever asked "was it good for you", then you're dumber than a post and need your head examined. You can have a conversation without sounding absolutely stupid. I would hope you have had some long and involved conversations with your partner and have some idea what 'works for them' before you do 'the wild thing'.
If you have ever asked "was it good for you", then you're dumber than a post
I agree - that's one of the dumbest questions ever! Right up there with "honey, am I fat?"! Thankfully, I've never heard it.
If I'm really into somebody, I don't think he's good in bed, and I believe there may be hope for improvement, I'd stick around for a while. If I don't see hope, I'll leave without stating the real reason. Nobody needs to be crashed like that...
Sometimes people are not inherently bad, but they're just not compatible. For instance, even though he never explicitly said so, I'm pretty positive one of my ex-husbands had never received or given oral sex before he met me, or if he had, it might've been a very isolated occasion. Not for lack of desire, that's for sure. He just had one of "those" wives... I don't know if he'd read books, or watched porn, or whatever... but he was great at it! Maybe some can be just naturally good, without a whole lot of prior experience.
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Thankfully, I've never heard it.
