Why do men who cheat think they’re doing you a favour by not telling you about it? (friend, partner)
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That all sounds like such an excuse though. I meet tons of people I'm attracted to and have chemistry with, but because I have principles I do NOT hurtle myself headlong into a vortex of carnal desires and emotional fantasies! I also do not fool myself with the sense of entitlement that I can "try out" this new relationship while keep it a secret, just in case I want to switch partners in the future. It's just being weak-minded, escapist, and selfish.
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Originally Posted by miyu
I don't think there is any way somebody could justify not telling a partner of their indiscretions by saying that they didn't want to rock the boat.
Because they don't want to face up to the consequences of what they have done.
What you don't know can't hurt THEM!
Could you, please, elaborate some on how it would benefit the one being told? Let's assume we're talking about a long-term marriage with children and assets.
Could you, please, elaborate some on how it would benefit the one being told? Let's assume we're talking about a long-term marriage with children and assets.
Could you, please, elaborate some on how it would benefit the one being told? Let's assume we're talking about a long-term marriage with children and assets.
Is it just easier to pretend it didn't happen and go on playing happy families?
And what about when it's not a long-term marriage with children and assets? Would you prefer to live in a lie of a relationship?
I would want to know if the person I had spent X amount of years living with had done the wrong thing by me, so I could see I deserve better and move on.
Is it just easier to pretend it didn't happen and go on playing happy families?
And what about when it's not a long-term marriage with children and assets? Would you prefer to live in a lie of a relationship?
I would want to know if the person I had spent X amount of years living with had done the wrong thing by me, so I could see I deserve better and move on.
There are gray areas in life you don't seem to want to acknowledge. Most people are not saints at all times. Besides, not everybody places so much importance on a one-time intercourse. There are more important things in a relationship to some.
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