How do you guys cope with rejection?

[artsyguy]

Hitler was married. Does that mean he was a great guy?

Originally Posted by sydney1987

i know, it's TERRIBLE

me and my ego.

let the reason be anything but me!!!!

[sydney1987]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

Hitler was married. Does that mean he was a great guy?

i dont know .... but NO not a great guy

all i know is i am a great person
and i should get married eventually.

[Malkiel]

Originally Posted by sydney1987

It's very hard to not take it personally when someone you invest time/energy/interest in just blatantly doesn't care or feel the same way. The signs are very obvious and apparent.

How is it possible to not to hate* the fact that someone has viewed you, deemed you unacceptable/ saw negative qualities in you, and decided to brush your interest aside?

I really like myself. But I have to say, sometimes it really sucks. And I wonder, what does it take to make a good impression on this guy? It can be quite frustrating. I know it's not the end of the world but it does suck to put yourself out there and hang your neck out like that... and get rebuffed.


*typo as heart. No I don't heart that at all. haha

Don't invest time and energy into seeking girls. Put that effort into going to the gym.

[sydney1987]

Originally Posted by Malkiel

Don't invest time and energy into seeking girls. Put that effort into going to the gym.

maybe i should start seeking girls?

i'm a girl