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Old 02-03-2011, 05:52 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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Realistically I think women have to be selfish but still be accomodating. The faster a woman gets off the better it is for the guy's ego. Then he can start relaxing and being more selfish. Unless of course they have some S&M arrangement... then no rules apply.
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Old 02-03-2011, 06:04 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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There's such a thing as a BAD orgasm? Hmmmmm. Learn something new every day I guess.

Generally, I care about my partner's pleasure more than my own. But he is easy to please. I'm there and I'm breathing. That's all it takes to make him happy.
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Old 02-03-2011, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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what on earth is a bad orgasm??? I don't think I've ever experienced a bad one...
There are degrees to everything... They're all good, but there are better ones.
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Old 02-03-2011, 08:57 PM
 
Location: The ATL
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Is sex a selfish thing for you?

Do you care whether your partner, you are having sex with, has a good orgasm or not?

There are good, and not so good ones.
I always make sure she has the best orgasm I can give her. Nothing satisfies a man like a woman satisfied.
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Old 02-03-2011, 09:04 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Nope, I only care about my pleasure. Once I'm pleased, I'd feel better about pleasing him and we can be pleased together. I guess that is selfish, and one reason why I wouldn't bother with men who don't cater to the queen's needs as a priority, to be shamelessly honest.
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Old 02-03-2011, 09:11 PM
 
Location: The ATL
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Nope, I only care about my pleasure. Once I'm pleased, I'd feel better about pleasing him and we can be pleased together. I guess that is selfish, and one reason why I wouldn't bother with men who don't cater to the queen's needs as a priority, to be shamelessly honest.
You and I need to get together...
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Old 02-03-2011, 09:16 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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How can sex be any good, If you have no intention of pleasing your partner lol and your chance of staying with that person are slim at best.
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Old 02-03-2011, 09:24 PM
 
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Nothing wrong with either taking or giving in sex as long as you're doing both.
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Old 02-03-2011, 09:33 PM
 
Location: California
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I should point out that guys can't necessarity "give" anyone an orgasm. It's a brain thing for many women.

Fortunately I've not had a problem with that and pretty much any guy would feel like a stud with me in under 5 minutes. But if he is trying to go for the gold and thinks I'll have more than one he is wasting time, although he is welcome to do so for his own purposes. Everyone is wired differently and one is my number.
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Old 02-04-2011, 04:26 AM
 
Location: New England
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Is sex a selfish thing for you?

Do you care whether your partner, you are having sex with, has a good orgasm or not?

There are good, and not so good ones.
I definitely care. Mainly, I want her to at least have one, and show that she is having one (which means a good one, I guess). If it is good for her, it is good for me. If she's not enjoying it, then it's a real road block for me.
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