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Old 02-04-2011, 01:43 PM
 
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Actually, Yiuppy has a point. Far too many men out there think sex is a matter of hydraulics: Once they're done and Mr. Happy deflates, they figure sex is over and if the lady didn't finish, she's just SOL.
I agree with you but also you have those women who just think that laying there and “letting him have sex”. We have men who are bad, we have women who are bad. There are women out there who see themselves as a queen who a man has to cater to her desires and then maybe she might reciprocate like the one who posted here.
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Old 02-04-2011, 02:09 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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It makes me very happy to please my partner. Very happy, indeed! Sometimes, it's all about him. However, I think it's only fair that I should be on the receiving end just as often as he is.
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Old 02-04-2011, 02:17 PM
 
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It makes me very happy to please my partner. Very happy, indeed! Sometimes, it's all about him. However, I think it's only fair that I should be on the receiving end just as often as he is.
Yup
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Old 02-04-2011, 03:08 PM
 
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I'm not sexually satisfied if the woman doesn't have an orgasm, which is why I find multi-orgasmic women and also what I call "sexually engaged" women (i.e. participatory and receptive to eye to eye contact and verbally enagaged during sex) much more compatible with me. I can attain release through masturbation any day of the week, that's no longer what I seek in a sexual encounter. HER orgasm is what I'm looking for to stimulate my dirty little brain, which is also what I cannot attain by self-stimulation. Her twitching, moaning, exhaling, encouragement for more, that's what I crave.My drug, of sorts. She provides me that (again, something "let him lay on top of me and have at it" women are unable to provide me) and she's guranteed a climax she may need kevlar and eye protection for


I've gotten to the point where I can pretty much control the tempo of when I can "go". As I've aged sex has become much more about play and facial/body responses during sex than the actual release. That said, I find it laborious and sometimes impossible to attain a good (if a genuine) release if the woman is not engaged in the verbal/non-verbal jousting of close intercourse. I am a little ashamed but I have in one occasion faked it as I knew that verbalizing that she wasn't able to engage me mentally and therefore I couldn't genuinely release (I could but I didn't WANT to) would be very hurtful to her ego, and that's the last thing I would try to inflict on anybody. It's a terrible thing for both parties. But Never again. I rather stay home than have sex with a "lay there and masturbate with the help of my body" woman.

Dang I just re-read my post and I think I could write adult stories,lol it got hot in this room all of a sudden lol. Jesus....
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Old 02-04-2011, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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I'm not sexually satisfied if the woman doesn't have an orgasm, which is why I find multi-orgasmic women and also what I call "sexually engaged" women (i.e. participatory and receptive to eye to eye contact and verbally enagaged during sex) much more compatible with me. I can attain release through masturbation any day of the week, that's no longer what I seek in a sexual encounter. HER orgasm is what I'm looking for to stimulate my dirty little brain, which is also what I cannot attain by self-stimulation. Her twitching, moaning, exhaling, encouragement for more, that's what I crave.My drug, of sorts. She provides me that (again, something "let him lay on top of me and have at it" women are unable to provide me) and she's guranteed a climax she may need kevlar and eye protection for


I've gotten to the point where I can pretty much control the tempo of when I can "go". As I've aged sex has become much more about play and facial/body responses during sex than the actual release. That said, I find it laborious and sometimes impossible to attain a good (if a genuine) release if the woman is not engaged in the verbal/non-verbal jousting of close intercourse. I am a little ashamed but I have in one occasion faked it as I knew that verbalizing that she wasn't able to engage me mentally and therefore I couldn't genuinely release (I could but I didn't WANT to) would be very hurtful to her ego, and that's the last thing I would try to inflict on anybody. It's a terrible thing for both parties. But Never again. I rather stay home than have sex with a "lay there and masturbate with the help of my body" woman.

Dang I just re-read my post and I think I could write adult stories,lol it got hot in this room all of a sudden lol. Jesus....
Yes indeed ....
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Old 02-04-2011, 07:35 PM
 
Location: The ATL
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I'm not sexually satisfied if the woman doesn't have an orgasm, which is why I find multi-orgasmic women and also what I call "sexually engaged" women (i.e. participatory and receptive to eye to eye contact and verbally enagaged during sex) much more compatible with me. I can attain release through masturbation any day of the week, that's no longer what I seek in a sexual encounter. HER orgasm is what I'm looking for to stimulate my dirty little brain, which is also what I cannot attain by self-stimulation. Her twitching, moaning, exhaling, encouragement for more, that's what I crave.My drug, of sorts. She provides me that (again, something "let him lay on top of me and have at it" women are unable to provide me) and she's guranteed a climax she may need kevlar and eye protection for


I've gotten to the point where I can pretty much control the tempo of when I can "go". As I've aged sex has become much more about play and facial/body responses during sex than the actual release. That said, I find it laborious and sometimes impossible to attain a good (if a genuine) release if the woman is not engaged in the verbal/non-verbal jousting of close intercourse. I am a little ashamed but I have in one occasion faked it as I knew that verbalizing that she wasn't able to engage me mentally and therefore I couldn't genuinely release (I could but I didn't WANT to) would be very hurtful to her ego, and that's the last thing I would try to inflict on anybody. It's a terrible thing for both parties. But Never again. I rather stay home than have sex with a "lay there and masturbate with the help of my body" woman.
I am exactly the same way!!!
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Old 02-04-2011, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Coastal Mid-Atlantic
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If just hope God doesn't change his name. I would hate to hear my girlfriend yell out something like, Irving!
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Old 02-05-2011, 03:27 PM
 
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I'm not sexually satisfied if the woman doesn't have an orgasm, which is why I find multi-orgasmic women and also what I call "sexually engaged" women (i.e. participatory and receptive to eye to eye contact and verbally enagaged during sex) much more compatible with me. I can attain release through masturbation any day of the week, that's no longer what I seek in a sexual encounter. HER orgasm is what I'm looking for to stimulate my dirty little brain, which is also what I cannot attain by self-stimulation. Her twitching, moaning, exhaling, encouragement for more, that's what I crave.My drug, of sorts. She provides me that (again, something "let him lay on top of me and have at it" women are unable to provide me) and she's guranteed a climax she may need kevlar and eye protection for


I've gotten to the point where I can pretty much control the tempo of when I can "go". As I've aged sex has become much more about play and facial/body responses during sex than the actual release. That said, I find it laborious and sometimes impossible to attain a good (if a genuine) release if the woman is not engaged in the verbal/non-verbal jousting of close intercourse. I am a little ashamed but I have in one occasion faked it as I knew that verbalizing that she wasn't able to engage me mentally and therefore I couldn't genuinely release (I could but I didn't WANT to) would be very hurtful to her ego, and that's the last thing I would try to inflict on anybody. It's a terrible thing for both parties. But Never again. I rather stay home than have sex with a "lay there and masturbate with the help of my body" woman.

Dang I just re-read my post and I think I could write adult stories,lol it got hot in this room all of a sudden lol. Jesus....
Well said. Agree 100%.
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Old 02-05-2011, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Up North
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OH MY ****! The original post still has me cracking up and I've already read 2 pages of this thread.

I've never had a bad orgasm. Is it something painful?
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Old 02-06-2011, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Between Heaven And Hell.
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Those that think that you can’t have a bad, maybe mediocre, what was the point of that one, may have never experienced a good orgasm.
Many believe that if you have had one, then it must have been good, but that’s not the case. Not that we are likely to tell our partners. ( Big no no there ).
If you have only ever done it in the missionary position, you may be missing out, especially if you are male.

Shall I leave it there for the moment!?
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