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Old 02-07-2011, 01:56 PM
 
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Sigh. Some of you young guys are your own worst enemy - blaming anything and everyone else for your own feelings of inadequacy

Please read this thread to learn about being a good guy. If you follow the good advice in it, you'll be a much more attractive man to the women around you.

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...-good-men.html
That thread is false. In reality and nature it's self looks do matter alot for each culture. It's a scientific fact women are very pick and western culture enforces that shallow desire evolution programmed into you.

Most American women won't say it but they would rather go for that black muscular guy I posted other the thin korean guy.

 
Old 02-07-2011, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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That thread is false. In reality and nature it's self looks do matter alot for each culture. It's a scientific fact women are very pick and western culture enforces that shallow desire evolution programmed into you.

Most American women won't say it but they would rather go for that black muscular guy I posted other the thin korean guy.

I disagree, I think men and women tend to date someone that can fit well with them in regards to size and shape. I'm tall and thick bodied, I do like a fit man but I also want him taller than myself and formidable.. that does not mean if I were a very tiny person, I wouldn't want a smaller man.. I go with what is comfortable for me.
 
Old 02-07-2011, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Originally Posted by Kim Taeyeon View Post
That thread is false. In reality and nature it's self looks do matter alot for each culture. It's a scientific fact women are very pick and western culture enforces that shallow desire evolution programmed into you.

Most American women won't say it but they would rather go for that black muscular guy I posted other the thin korean guy.


Well, since you OBVIOUSLY know it all , I can only presume you are here simply to complain, not to really learn anything.

We can't help people like you because you refuse to recognize YOU are the one with the problem

Good luck with that.
 
Old 02-07-2011, 02:03 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Originally Posted by Kim Taeyeon View Post
That thread is false. In reality and nature it's self looks do matter alot for each culture. It's a scientific fact women are very pick and western culture enforces that shallow desire evolution programmed into you.

Most American women won't say it but they would rather go for that black muscular guy I posted other the thin korean guy.
Are you American? Because of your syntax I don't get the impression that you are.

I ask because if you are having a difficult time fitting into American culture the only advice I can give you is to experience more variations on American culture than the pop culture you seem to have the biggest problem with.
 
Old 02-07-2011, 02:04 PM
 
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Give me a break, its a crap shoot all around. You think there aren't a ton of women out there dealing with the same (if not worse) ridiculous image standards.

Its what you do with what you have.

Sitting around sulking about it isn't going to help anything.
Myths

We men have it worse or else we wouldn't school up schools and such. It's the feminist in America that want you to believe western women suffer more. Why do you think women nor the media cares about men......feminist control in the media.
 
Old 02-07-2011, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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That thread is false. In reality and nature it's self looks do matter alot for each culture. It's a scientific fact women are very pick and western culture enforces that shallow desire evolution programmed into you.

Most American women won't say it but they would rather go for that black muscular guy I posted other the thin korean guy.
And I have yet to meet a short, smaller framed man (regardless of race or nationality) who was willing to go out with me, a 6'1 woman.

You don't want to be a smaller framed man, and it took me many years to be comfortable in my 'larger' female body.

Everyone has issues, but I find it funny that my very small 5'5 110 lb asian male friend has NEVER had a problem getting dates.
 
Old 02-07-2011, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I disagree, I think men and women tend to date someone that can fit well with them in regards to size and shape. I'm tall and thick bodied, I do like a fit man but I also want him taller than myself and formidable.. that does not mean if I were a very tiny person, I wouldn't want a smaller man.. I go with what is comfortable for me.
Absolutely agreed! Yes, I prefer taller men (and when I say tall, I mean 6'5 and taller) and I prefer men that are filled out a bit more...but that's because I'm really tall and filled out. If I were 5'6 and 120 lbs I would probably prefer shorter, thinner men..in fact, I know I would!
 
Old 02-07-2011, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Feminist-controlled media? Ha! That's new. That must be why there are so many homely women TV journalists. </sarcasm>

And hooray! Another woe-is-me short guy thread.
 
Old 02-07-2011, 02:09 PM
 
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Feminist-controlled media? That's new. That must be why there are so many homely women TV journalists.
I don't know, Katie Couric is kind of hot.
 
Old 02-07-2011, 02:10 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Originally Posted by Kim Taeyeon View Post
That thread is false. In reality and nature it's self looks do matter alot for each culture. It's a scientific fact women are very pick and western culture enforces that shallow desire evolution programmed into you.

Most American women won't say it but they would rather go for that black muscular guy I posted other the thin korean guy.
I have been approached in the past by men shorter than I. In fact I dated a guy who was 5'6" for two years. I'm 5'10. In heels (depending on the lift) I can be as tall as 6'2".
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