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A while back I made my first trip to a Gentleman's Club and was quite shocked with all things that actually happened. Let me start of by saying I am 25 old guy who never really has had a girlfriend before. I have been trying to interact with people and going out to social places like book clubs, volunteer events, and bars. Well one of my friends, who lives far away in San Diego, was saying what I really needed to is visit a strip club. In fact, he suggested a club and finally convinced me this was an experience every guy needed to have. I will admit the thought of seeing hot girls was definitely a turn-on for me.
So I finally dragged myself into the club and find it is a full nude club! That made me sort of nervous but the atmosphere actually turned to be quite different from a normal bar. Last time I went to the bar with my friends, all guys were busy chasing the few hot girls in bar. Here I soon found myself being approached by the hot waitress and of course strippers wanting me to buy dances or buy them drinks. All I had to do was just sit there and strippers would come by and sit on my lap and attempt to flirt! Too bad in real bar the girls aren't like this at all.
Anyhow, the real shocking part was the shady, if not semi-illegal, activities going on in the club. In the back corners you could see ladies giving lap dances to guys who seemed have their pants "loose"! In fact, I actually saw one guy put his hands down there. I finally decided to get a lap dance and the girl convinced me to go the VIP room. I am already nervous having this hot girl alone with me. Then during the 2nd dance she says I should feel free to touch her! I end up just touching her waist and got completely embarrassed. So after that dance I ask to her to stop, pay her and quickly exit club and drive home. To say truth this was a fairly uncomfortable and shocking experience for guy like me.
Of course, after my friend hears this he says I was a complete p**sy for fleeing right when good part started. To say the truth I do feel like I ran away from club a bit too fast from just touching this girl's waist. My friend's solution is to go back to this club or another and this time buy couple more lap dances to see where it goes. The horny part of me definitely want to hit the Gentleman's clubs to check out the hot girls. The other part of me thinks it is bad idea and probably will be an uncomfortable experience. Do guys think I actually go back to one?
Hey, if it makes you uncomfortable, then why do it?
The last time I went to a strip club was for my brother's bachelor party 20 years ago. To be honest with you, those places pretty boring after about ten minutes. I mean, sure, there are lots of attractive women peeling their clothes off in front of you (A caveat on the word 'attractive.' It really depends on the club), but when you realize that you can't touch them and they are about as emotionally involved in their work as they would be working the cash register at a 7/11, it kind of loses its appeal. And guys who frequent those places on a regular basis are a bit pathetic. Why pay to look at something that anybody with a brain and a personality can pretty much get for free?
Stripclubs are what they are. Those women only want your money that is all. I cannot lie they are cool to go to for like three times a year with friends or a bachelor party, other than that I would never "frequent"them. Can't lie though I get a laugh out of men thinking these women actually "like" them when they talk to them.
so? he'll actually be allowed to touch her and, get this, have real sex! and oh ya, she might actually do nice things for him beyond allowing him to only touch her...that's what a girlfriend does for her man..well a nice one.
Can't lie though I get a laugh out of men thinking these women actually "like" them when they talk to them.
OMG, I always thought it was because I was such a good looking fun stud. No wonder the more I spent, the better I looked to the ladies.
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I finally decided to get a lap dance and the girl convinced me to go the VIP room. I am already nervous having this hot girl alone with me. Then during the 2nd dance she says I should feel free to touch her!
I end up just touching her waist and got completely embarrassed. So after that dance I ask to her to stop, pay her and quickly exit club and drive home. To say truth this was a fairly uncomfortable and shocking experience for guy like me.
To say the truth I do feel like I ran away from club a bit too fast from just touching this girl's waist. My friend's solution is to go back to this club or another and this time buy couple more lap dances to see where it goes. The horny part of me definitely want to hit the Gentleman's clubs to check out the hot girls. The other part of me thinks it is bad idea and probably will be an uncomfortable experience. Do guys think I actually go back to one?
and oh ya, she might actually do nice things for him beyond allowing him to only touch her...that's what a girlfriend does for her man..well a nice one.
