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Old 02-10-2011, 03:01 PM
 
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I will give you a candy bar if you stop, okay ?
Sure, but I'll hold you to it.

I prefer Twix.
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:02 PM
 
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Its funny how the world works. They spend about 18 years feeding you misinformation(especially guys) about social dynamics in the real world. If you believe what your taught by pop-culture you will surely experience serious failure. If you believed the disney movies you grew up on, you would think that women will reward you for giving them attention, and treating them with respect. Wrong.

Anyway the first lesson they teach you is the worst. Share. hahahaha.

Be selfish, it's the least needy behavior imaginable, and will get you very far in life.

I repeat be SELFISH.
Whatever you say, Scrooge.
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:04 PM
 
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Whatever you say, Scrooge.
You know it's true.
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:05 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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It's true if your definition of success with women is getting laid by a barfly with low self-esteem. If you want a relationship with a decent woman, you're out of luck.
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:08 PM
 
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You know it's true.
Heh, no, unless you're singing Milli Vanilli to me. I understand that some people like living selfishly and are comfortable that way. I'm skeptical because my brain doesn't work like that, but okay. I wouldn't have married my husband if he were a selfish man, and I know he is a happier man for having me.
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:09 PM
 
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It's true if your definition of success with women is getting laid by a barfly with low self-esteem. If you want a relationship with a decent woman, you're out of luck.
Being selfish is a behavior that demonstrates high self-esteem, and low neediness. I've been with all types of women, but have had the best ones when I was looking out for myself the most.

It's like they wanted to come in-between me and my selfishness. Its like they wanted me to treat them the way I treat myself.

Again, ladies you know it's true. Nice guys are not selfish, but what happens to nice guys..........? Exactly. Point proven.
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:11 PM
 
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Sure, but I'll hold you to it.

I prefer Twix.
I have a HUGE hershey bar, will that be good ?

Okay back to neediness ....
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:14 PM
 
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Heh, no, unless you're singing Milli Vanilli to me. I understand that some people like living selfishly and are comfortable that way. I'm skeptical because my brain doesn't work like that, but okay. I wouldn't have married my husband if he were a selfish man, and I know he is a happier man for having me.
The man probably just started feeling old, and decided to settle.
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:20 PM
 
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The man probably just started feeling old, and decided to settle.
LOL ... we were both 22. I have a couple wedding pics in my profile if you're curious about how ugly and broke down we were.
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Old 02-10-2011, 03:27 PM
 
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LOL ... we were both 22. I have a couple wedding pics in my profile if you're curious about how ugly and broke down we were.
Thats good. I was married once, and it sucked.
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