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Girls, how many of you have had successful relationships that began with you making the first move/asking the man out?
Me!!! You've already experienced good results making the first move so why are you doubting yourself? Make the first move and if that works, wait for him to make the NEXT move. Most men love it. What do you have to lose?
I have had two major relationships. I met my ex-boyfriend on my 16th birthday. I went to a restaurant with friends and he was the busboy. I thought he was cute and, egged on by my friends, asked him to my birthday party. He did not come, but we started dating and were together over five years. We got along very well but grew in different directions. We split up but are still friends.
I dated three guys after him. One, I asked out of the blue (we worked together). Another, we also worked together (different job) and I heard he had asked if I had a boyfriend. So I gave him my number and we dated a little. The third, I knew from high school. We had been friends for years and he told me to call him if my boyfriend and I ever broke up. So I did, and now we're married, although he did the asking there.
If I didn't know he was interested I would not have thought to call him. Two of the four guys I asked were because I knew that. I think it must work even more so in reverse (if the guy thinks you are interested ).
I agree. Its difficult to say who made the first "move". My husband showed interest and so I showed it back not that I could keep it hidden. He asked me out.
i didn't ask him out, but i said "do you like me? if you don't, don't behave me as you like me. because nobody except myboyfriend can act me like this." then he said that he likes me and we started to a relationship heheh a different start we have been very happy since two years ago and we want to get married
It's one of those things that should have been delineated as a women's right a long time ago, asking the man is one of the things that would get most women what they want and I know most men would jump at the chance to date a woman they figured already like them. I personally find it refreshing and rewarding whenever I've been invited out by a woman. Some time back I was asked out by a very attractive women, she asked if I would like to see an exhibit at the Art Museum, I said only if I could buy her dinner and drinks afterward, we hit it off and had a great time. I'm still seeing her often, she's a delightful self confidant woman, like I said, it's refreshing...
It's EASY.
Men are not good at making the right pick. Coz 99% of the picks are made by the penis. That's just a failing 1% probability for the brain function.
Mrs Chamataka made the first move. And we caught like wild fire. And we're in the process of working out our wedding date and place presently
First my xhubs
Second, my xjumpoff. He is a very sweet guy. We're not partners anymore, but we have a good friendship.
I heard this theory the other day. Some women don't approach the guy she thinks is the most handsome. You know the guy at the party, event or bar you want to come over to say hello. We'll walk over to the average guy. Thinking we may get shot down from the "cute guy".
First my xhubs
Second, my xjumpoff. He is a very sweet guy. We're not partners anymore, but we have a good friendship.
I heard this theory the other day. Some women don't approach the guy she thinks is the most handsome. You know the guy at the party, event or bar you want to come over to say hello. We'll walk over to the average guy. Thinking we may get shot down from the "cute guy".
I didn't say you handsome. Some women are like men afraid of rejection. She wants the handsome guy. Most won't approach him. She may think he's out of her league. She'll wait for him to say something.
I have never in my life ever asked a man out. Not sure if that's a good or a bad thing, lol.
It's a good thing. And if you are doing the asking, the dudes won't be complaining
Try it for a change, coz I know you once posted how everyone who expresses interest in you are creepy, weird and old.
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heheh a different start 
we have been very happy since two years ago and we want to get married 
