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Of course he will take the sex until he tires of you! If you do nOt want to be used just do not allow it 2 happen.
Jeez.... If you read this forum a lot of women having sex randomly without a relationship are asking the same. How about stop giving him sex and watch his behavior.. No sex involved!
This is good info, because it's common knowledge that men lack the mental capacity to ever get tired of sex with an "official" girlfriend.
The good news is every single suggestion on this thread will eventually tell you if he's using you or not. However, asking the guy is the quickest.
Honestly I do not see how your situation can end up being a relationship. Your mate has not invested anything on having you and as bad as it sound, having random sex with him is just so easy for him, I highly doubt he is regarding this as something of value. As I wrote before I have reAd here plenty of posts of women asking the same question. Men would get any opportunity to have sex. A relationship in my view should not start randomly having intercourse. Your behavior implies you do not put a lot of value on yourself. I know this notion is nOt pc.
Relationships have a better chance if they do not start by having sex
Wow, threads like this make me wonder if the Moms or Dads ever talk to their kids about sex. Not just the fundamentals but what it's really about?
Do any of you do this? Why are so many young girls LOL'ing after sex with hardly a clue?
No offense, op, really we all learn this but it seems like you didn't get a good talk before leaving the nest.
I still think the first thing she should do is TALK TO HIM. After that she can come back... give us some feedback that we can work on.
Talking hardly ever clarifies or changes anything. Staying in her own room would! Going on dates with others would! 'Cause these are actions, aka speaking Guyish!
I believe the guys told her what she needs to know thru his actions.
I don't like this kind of mindframe. I usually want to talk to people face 2 face and directlly. After having such a talk I start drawing conclusions.... from evertything... including actions, works etc.
Which is why I have always counseled my kids to stay with same sex roommates. Life is complicated enough without trying to make it more confusing, especially at your age.
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