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In you opinion what is a reasonable amount of time for reconciliation and how do you think it would proceed?
Got a counseling appt tomorrow.......should be fun! I'm not fond of it, but doing it in hopes of long term solutions......I just need to get her to open her mind to wanting possible reconciliation, because verbally it's not an option.
I dont think it is something you should put a rigid time limit on especially if she has a medical problem. First take care of her mental/emotional difficulties. Dont push it.
I think you are already proceeding. You are keeping communications open yet giving each other space to step back and look at your problems. I think you will know when you reach that point. Or you will know when it will never happen.
Well you have 2 kids with her and she is having mental issues. So pretty much you are just going to have to suck it up and go with the flow for now. Devote your energies to yourself and most importantly your KIDS.
I'd be less concerned with yourself and moreso with the kids, the rest will work itself out.
It's not nothing. She has a lover. Women do not leave their families unless there is another man acting as a safety net. They especially do not leave their young kids, and move out without any means of support, UNLESS there is someone else.
Do some digging, and you will discover the truth here.
This isn't true most times. My xSIL separated from my brother and gave him the son. A few months later she left the daughter as well.
My girlfriend dated a guy and his wife left him. She left him with a 3yr and 10yr sons. This woman won't pay child support.
It's a new day people. Women are leaving their families. They are leaving their young children with the dad. No lover and nothing is wrong. She doesn't want to be married and a mother anymore.
A man will display this behavior any day of the week. Why not a woman.
-Before you dated her, she had already been in 2 marriages and been divorced twice.
It's 1 thing to be divorced at age 23 (maybe she was too young and realized it), but it's another if she already got married twice by age 23 and both marriages failed. That is a huge red flag.
This isn't true most times. My xSIL separated from my brother and gave him the son. A few months later she left the daughter as well.
My girlfriend dated a guy and his wife left him. She left him with a 3yr and 10yr sons. This woman won't pay child support.
It's a new day people. Women are leaving their families. They are leaving their young children with the dad. No lover and nothing is wrong. She doesn't want to be married and a mother anymore.
A man will display this behavior any day of the week. Why not a woman.
Yup. I'd at least hire a detective and get to the truth. I'd also want to know why she is such a runaway bride. Frankly, with that kind of marital record, unless she's willing to make some serious changes, I'd run and not look back.
He kicked her out, he freely admits to doing and saying things to push her away, she is at the house all day most days, I think she got tired of the drama, they need to try couples counselling
It's not nothing. She has a lover. Women do not leave their families unless there is another man acting as a safety net. They especially do not leave their young kids, and move out without any means of support, UNLESS there is someone else.
Do some digging, and you will discover the truth here.
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