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Really, I do. I wish that I can just not feel emotion romantically sometimes, I hate having my heart squeezed and ripped out, I hate when my head is spinning over 1 simple girl, I hate getting down thinking about one lady who probably doesn't care or thinks of me, I just hate sometimes being head-over-heels for someone, I hate not being thought of.
I just wish I had a switch that can make me a heartless robot or inanimate object like a stone. Sometimes I wish I just never fell in love or I sometimes wish I just can just care less about having feelings for someone or having any interest in romance. I wish I was a zombie and just had a dead heart when it comes to romance.
Don't get it confused, I love to love. I love to love life, love my family, friends, and everyone that's good to me but romantically is what messes me up so bad sometimes. I hate not being able to focus, concentrate, getting side tracked on things I SHOULD be really putting energy, time and focus on rather then thinking about someone that just turns your heart out.
Its been a long time since I've felt crazy about a girl and I don't want to like it. In the beginning I loved it but now I just wish from here on out, I can be a zombie to relationships and focus on other aspects of my life.
That's what it will be like when you're dead so I don't think that's such a good thing to wish for. Since you do realize that you have strong emotional feelings and that love is something very important to you I would just suggest that you make the best of your life and seek out love while you can.
I hear ya Montana. Of course I don't want to really be like that but it drives me CRAZY! CRAAAAZY sometimes. Its like I just want to get out this negative energy that pesters me.
I hear you. Well, I used to program robots and I can tell you this about them. When they sense something, they know two things: when and how to make a move and they never regret that move. Was that corny or what?
You sound like you have lot of positive energy. I think you are making a good move channeling that energy to other aspects of your life. Take what you have and make the best out of it.
I am assuming you are still fairly young. When you are old, you have been burned so much that you don't feel that giddy happiness of love any more, you are more like "Spock" and just observe it all. As painful as it is now, it is better than the cold, analytical apathy I feel now.
I think if you focused on the other aspects of your life "with a passion" you wouldn't have time to worry about romantic relationships...you know..when you LEAST expect it ,you're elected???Put romance out of your mind if it makes you feel so bad, and instead ....live a good life.,let romance find you!!!!
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