boyfriend won't add me to his facebook.... but all his family and friends are on there. (dating, girlfriends)
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So My boyfriend (of 3years living together and been out of work for over 8 months) will not add me to his facebook. What the! He has a ton of friends and fam. added....but still no me.
I have just come out and asked him to add me, his reply was " that's my own life and stuff. Oh .... as if his friends on there are important. He say's that most of the friends on his facebook are just peeps from past jobs and high school friends. Most of the friends on there are pretty girls that he talks bad about.
Dunno if he is just not that in to me or what.
Been through a lot, being that he is 8 years younger may have something to do with it...but I honestly do not think so.
Although when he met me he thought I was the same age....and everyone we know assumes that.
The way I see it is I have been the one to take care of him. All the great gifts and birthday's for his fam. have been because I go out and get the gifts and make a big deal, not him. Just an example of my thoughtfulness towards him. Along with working full time(lot's off overtime)cleaning, cooking, ironing ect. I do not any kids and he his only my second boyfriend. Am I guileless when it comes to guy's and relationships. WHAT!
What is the deal. Plz.
Should I stay or should I go....already had one real bad disappointment in life concerning a ex dumping me after 8 years, taking all of my stuff and money and leaving me for a old 55ish hag. Also bought a house together and he reneged...leaving me with no money.
I can tell you that he does deeply care for me and is a decent guy....never has really used me, taking me for granite...yes. Just can't get passed this facebook situation. Just venting.
So My boyfriend (of 3years living together and been out of work for over 8 months) will not add me to his facebook. What the! He has a ton of friends and fam. added....but still no me.
I have just come out and asked him to add me, his reply was " that's my own life and stuff. Oh .... as if his friends on there are important. He say's that most of the friends on his facebook are just peeps from past jobs and high school friends. Most of the friends on there are pretty girls that he talks bad about.
Dunno if he is just not that in to me or what.
Been through a lot, being that he is 8 years younger may have something to do with it...but I honestly do not think so.
Although when he met me he thought I was the same age....and everyone we know assumes that.
The way I see it is I have been the one to take care of him. All the great gifts and birthday's for his fam. have been because I go out and get the gifts and make a big deal, not him. Just an example of my thoughtfulness towards him. Along with working full time(lot's off overtime)cleaning, cooking, ironing ect. I do not any kids and he his only my second boyfriend. Am I guileless when it comes to guy's and relationships. WHAT!
What is the deal. Plz.
Should I stay or should I go....already had one real bad disappointment in life concerning a ex dumping me after 8 years, taking all of my stuff and money and leaving me for a old 55ish hag. Also bought a house together and he reneged...leaving me with no money.
I can tell you that he does deeply care for me and is a decent guy....never has really used me, taking me for granite...yes. Just can't get passed this facebook situation. Just venting.
Just venting....thanks for hearing me out ya'll.
1.) He sees you every day, and find no need to add you.
2.) He is cheating on you, though this is just a far fetched take on it.
3.) You're looking too far into this.
4.) Haven't this topic been up once? It looks awfully similiar to something i read a while ago (Before joining).
So is it the age thing? I am 32 and he is 25.
I do not like facebook that much, but my fam. lives in Germany and i do keep in contact via facebook with them. I feel that I am way behind in the game of life...so to speak. No kids, never been asked to get hitched. Maybe there is something wrong with me. Not ugly or fat, got a great job...so what's the deal.
Yes, we've had this thread before. I agree, the O.P. sees him every day, let him have his Facebook for his friends and networking. In a healthy longterm relationship, a couple needs some private time away from each other.
So is it the age thing? I am 32 and he is 25.
I do not like facebook that much, but my fam. lives in Germany and i do keep in contact via facebook with them. I feel that I am way behind in the game of life...so to speak. No kids, never been asked to get hitched. Maybe there is something wrong with me. Not ugly or fat, got a great job...so what's the deal.
Dude, you are basically taking care of an unemployed 25yr old. (from your original post)
The only thing you did wrong is not find a responsible, productive, and appreciative guy closer to your age.
Any guy I know has had no problems adding their girlfriends to their facebook unless they had something to hide.
Yeah, but when I do get home he never talks to me. He can go all week and not say much to me.
Just spends his time on the internet...Offtopic and talks to a few buds online.
Yeah, but when I do get home he never talks to me. He can go all week and not say much to me.
Just spends his time on the internet...Offtopic and talks to a few buds online.
He's using you. Get rid of him.
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