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03-14-2011, 06:57 PM
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Two words for you: highschool girls.
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03-14-2011, 06:58 PM
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Location: Somewhere on Earth
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Originally Posted by truth to valid
I think I could do well in a party type environment but how do I get myself invited to one in the first place?
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If you go to school, it's pretty easy to go to parties. Just ask around and just swing by.
I would recommend taking a class at your local junior college if you can. Then join some clubs. College environment allows you to have easy access to women.
It seems like you are very mature for a 24 yo, so I don't think you need reassurance that being a virgin is not a bad thing 
Too bad you aren't gay...I would be perfect for you. I'm 22.5 and a virgin too 
Good luck gal hunting!  |
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03-14-2011, 07:05 PM
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Location: Indiana
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You have to learn how to talk to women.
The guy that owned the first company I ever worked for had a big ole beergut, was bald, so southern you could barely understand him and had a huge beer gut. Your typical redneck with money lol. Yet he had women falling all over him. Why? He was a charming SOB. That man could charm the pants off any women he met, it was crazy.
His combo of a charming personality and manly man traits won women over. Women are fickle creatures, I've been married 7 years and still don't know what the hell is going on.
I have the manly traits without the charm, worked for me, so shoot for one or the other.
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03-14-2011, 07:08 PM
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Thanks.
I wish I could think of something to do directly after work as it would make me feel better about my day because as of now, at the end of my days all I know is that I sat on my ass behind a computer screen for the larger portion of said day. No socialization whatsoever. I barely talk to another soul the entire day, stuck in a corner, like an inmate.
There are no girls whatsoever to meet a work.
I workout in my apartment at home so I have no plans to visit a gym...I just need some socialization after work hours.
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03-14-2011, 07:17 PM
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You wont be alone your whole life and you certainly arent pathetic.
Bring yourself here. :-D
Id love a man like you.
But seriously...have you considered just hanging out with friends or going to clubs? Single Mingles?
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03-14-2011, 07:25 PM
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Location: Wherever women are
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Weekend Traveler, I was a 30 year old virgin until March 2010. Not joking. Sometimes you have to meet "the one". Besides, virginity is valued in foreign cultures. So chill  |
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03-14-2011, 07:39 PM
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Location: Australia
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Originally Posted by truth to valid
Thanks.
I wish I could think of something to do directly after work as it would make me feel better about my day because as of now, at the end of my days all I know is that I sat on my ass behind a computer screen for the larger portion of said day. No socialization whatsoever. I barely talk to another soul the entire day, stuck in a corner, like an inmate.
There are no girls whatsoever to meet a work.
I workout in my apartment at home so I have no plans to visit a gym...I just need some socialization after work hours.
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You said it yourself - you need some socialization after work hours - so get yourself some friends first. Meet-up groups sound ideal - you will meet people of all ages and all types. Just make friends with a few of them. Maybe no direct girlfriend material - but those new friends will have daughters, or sisters, or female neighbours or workmates. Once your friends realise what a nice guy you are, they'll be keen to invite you to their parties or other social functions - where you may well meet the girl of your dreams. |
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03-14-2011, 07:44 PM
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if you think you are pitiful, then you are. nobody else needs to tell you that.
you are what you think
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03-14-2011, 07:51 PM
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Location: The High Seas
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TV&Sports Guy will be around shortly to straighten you out.
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03-14-2011, 07:52 PM
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Location: Somewhere out there...
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Because I have good looks (just take my word for it) am confident, in shape, have a decent job...yet still, no girl? If I was hideous or something then at least I could reason a little bit but I'm so far from those supposedly undesirable traits that I'm left wondering why?
I know the bulk of my problem is finding the right type of girl. Unfortunately, I never took advantage of my good attributes to get girls when I was in school so now I feel very much left out...and sad.
Where can I meet girls? I live in the suburbs and drive to and from work everyday -- hardly do I meet anybody new.
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There is no room in the relationship for a girl, your ego seems to be your partner. |
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