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03-14-2011, 08:39 PM
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03-14-2011, 08:41 PM
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Location: The High Seas
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Originally Posted by JordanJP
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Careful! You can lose an eye doing that. |
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03-14-2011, 08:46 PM
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Location: Charlotte
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Originally Posted by donie1
How about volunteering for organizations that you'd be interested in? Habitat for Humanity, Humane Society are the two that come up in my mind with people your own age. How about marital arts? Take classes for martial arts. Join a gym. Take night classes doing something fun or interesting.
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Yeah this could work, I volunteer for habitat for humanity, and all the time I go there, I find a lot of college students there volunteering as part of their college, although I never tried to talk to any of the women there specifically, if anyone's interested in looking for that option, that's a possibility too. |
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03-15-2011, 01:39 AM
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Originally Posted by truth to valid
Because I have good looks (just take my word for it) am confident, in shape, have a decent job...yet still, no girl? If I was hideous or something then at least I could reason a little bit but I'm so far from those supposedly undesirable traits that I'm left wondering why?
I know the bulk of my problem is finding the right type of girl. Unfortunately, I never took advantage of my good attributes to get girls when I was in school so now I feel very much left out...and sad.
Where can I meet girls? I live in the suburbs and drive to and from work everyday -- hardly do I meet anybody new.
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You could be the best looking human being that was ever born AND still be the most repulsive thing on the planet. Looks get you in the door. It's you yourself that keeps you there. Not your looks. |
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03-15-2011, 03:22 AM
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Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Originally Posted by truth to valid
I like that advice but aren't most of the people who attend those sorts of events 35+?
I want to meet someone 20-25.
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Ever crossed your mind that 35+ year old people have younger acquaintances and 40-50 year olds have kids your age, older ones have grandchildren?
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Originally Posted by truth to valid
I live in the suburbs! What is there to do here? People don't go out during the winter anyway because "its too cold" or some bull****.
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Nonsense.
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Originally Posted by truth to valid
I just feel like ages 23-25 are hard to be for a male - all the girls our ages get scooped up by older men, and all the younger girls are still in college getting plenty of socialization and thus no need for us.
I live in an apartment by myself in the suburbs and its torture. Solitary confinement.
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Excuses.
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Originally Posted by truth to valid
I don't even care for hot woman. Just any average-looking girl with a decent head on her shoulders would suffice.
Store approaches are weird because 1) I'm in and out so quick as I dislike the whole shopping experience and 2) if I stick around scoping out girls, I feel phony even being in the store for first place.
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Excuses.
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Originally Posted by truth to valid
Thanks.
I wish I could think of something to do directly after work as it would make me feel better about my day because as of now, at the end of my days all I know is that I sat on my ass behind a computer screen for the larger portion of said day. No socialization whatsoever. I barely talk to another soul the entire day, stuck in a corner, like an inmate.
There are no girls whatsoever to meet a work.
I workout in my apartment at home so I have no plans to visit a gym...I just need some socialization after work hours.
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Your fault you don't talk to anyone! You seriously need to broaden your horizons and meet PEOPLE whether they're 20 or 90.
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Originally Posted by stevebri
You could be the best looking human being that was ever born AND still be the most repulsive thing on the planet. Looks get you in the door. It's you yourself that keeps you there. Not your looks.
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True. With your lack of social interaction you may well be impossibly boring. The looks are just a facade which don't last anyway. |
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03-15-2011, 03:51 PM
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Two words for you: highschool girls.
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Are you a pedophile? You suggesting a 24 year old man date girls aged 14-18 is a bit questionable. |
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03-15-2011, 04:36 PM
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Are you a pedophile? You suggesting a 24 year old man date girls aged 14-18 is a bit questionable.
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If they're 18, there's nothing wrong with that. |
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03-15-2011, 06:11 PM
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Location: Up above the world so high!
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Originally Posted by city_data91
If they're 18, there's nothing wrong with that.
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A grown man who has already graduated from COLLEGE should not be dating high school girls, even if they are 18.  |
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03-15-2011, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
A grown man who has already graduated from COLLEGE should not be dating high school girls, even if they are 18. |
It's not the worse thing in the world. But kinda lame if you ask me... |
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03-15-2011, 06:49 PM
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chances are you arent everything you claim in the OP or else youd have women
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