I'm the most pitiful 24 year old virgin male (dating, how to, girls)

[Amontillado]

You know, I was the most pitiful 24 year old virgin male. But then there was Janet. Ahhhh...

The relationship didn't last. But my gratitude is eternal.

[yankeegirl313]

Confidence.....

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by truth to valid

I've been following that advice for 24 years. I NEED to go looking otherwise I will be home all alone for the rest of my life.

Go out become active. Look for things to be involved in.

And quit making excuses.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JhlWddAXSRA

[truth to valid]

Originally Posted by SD4020

Go out become active. Look for things to be involved in.

And quit making excuses.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JhlWddAXSRA

I live in the suburbs! What is there to do here? People don't go out during the winter anyway because "its too cold" or some bull****.

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by truth to valid

I live in the suburbs! What is there to do here? People don't go out during the winter anyway because "its too cold" or some bull****.

You keep making excuses. Get off your ass go looking for something to do. Be it arts, or community improvement project. What do you like?

[Snort]

If you're good-looking, all it takes is being among single people of the opposite sex. That's about it.

[truth to valid]

Originally Posted by Snort

If you're good-looking, all it takes is being among single people of the opposite sex. That's about it.

Any ideas?

[Georgianbelle]

Join a gym, run, ride a bike. Young people tend to be active...I am a 24 year old woman, and I run daily. I am a member of a group that runs together too. I am not currently in a gym, but I was...see those are the kinds of things younger people do. Hope you find someone soon.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by truth to valid

I like that advice but aren't most of the people who attend those sorts of events 35+?

I want to meet someone 20-25.

You really will meet people from 20 to 70 sometimes.

A lot depends on the activity.

If you choose something pretty physical, or just something that 20-somethings are more into, you'll find women in your age range.

[truth to valid]

I just feel like ages 23-25 are hard to be for a male - all the girls our ages get scooped up by older men, and all the younger girls are still in college getting plenty of socialization and thus no need for us.

I live in an apartment by myself in the suburbs and its torture. Solitary confinement.