Guy Meets Girl; Guy Really Likes Girl; Girl Really Likes Guy, but says... (married, woman)

[CarolVa1977]

wow, smart girl

[Wilson513]

I hate to be cynical about this, but my experience was that women that are determined to be virgins for their husbands are pretty much into sex as long as it does not include vaginal intercourse, which leaves a lot of territory. I'm sure there are women for whom this pledge means that they will not have a sexually focused relationship outside of marriage. Nice thought, but I think its a rarity. You might find a whole lot more sexually active relationship with this woman than you think.

[CTownNative]

Originally Posted by MzSJP

"I am CELIBATE until marriage" because of religious and moral beliefs.

Guys: What do you do?

I would easily wait till marriage if a girl said that. I'd actually love to find a girl who wanted to wait till marriage to give up her virginity because Im a guy that still has mine, and Im Catholic so my belief is to wait until that point.

[90sman]

I would find her even more attractive and continue dating her.

[city_data91]

Originally Posted by 90sman

I would find her even more attractive and continue dating her.

We might disagree on a lot of stuff, but here's something we agree on.

[swisswife]

would you buy a car without a test drive...?? Id walk.....

[Ittiz]

Originally Posted by swisswife

would you buy a car without a test drive...?? Id walk.....

That's the biggest thing I hear. If you and her are virgins that becomes moot. Since you have no clue if someone else could or would be better. My wife and I both waited. I'd like to think we have pretty good sex, we both climax every time. While that isn't necessarily the most important thing it does say something.

[bouncethelight]

Originally Posted by city_data91

I say "Then you're my type of girl!"

But I think to myself "Don't expect marriage from me"

Don't just think it city_data91, say it out loud. If she's being honest with you, then she deserves the same from you.

It's okay to want what you want! Just be honest about it, and then everybody is happy!

[city_data91]

Originally Posted by bouncethelight

Don't just think it city_data91, say it out loud. If she's being honest with you, then she deserves the same from you.

It's okay to want what you want! Just be honest about it, and then everybody is happy!

Withholding the truth from someone is not the same as lying. Leading her on, maybe. But not lying.

It's only lying if I tell her I plan on marrying.

If she asked me about my views on marriage, I would tell her the truth.

But there's no need to answer questions that weren't asked.

[sun queen]

Well if guy likes girl, does he want to marry girl, and if girl likes guy then to what degree is she celibate? I mean there is more than one way to skin a cat...