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She was doing it to be an ass cause she knew I'd be all left alone and she could come harass me.
I get the feeling she doesn't care if she is wrong (and she probably already knows it)... you know what they say... misery loves company... break the lease and pay the difference, would you pay that much to be rid of that problem is the bottom line? Are you sure he isn't getting some from her as well?
Are you paying her anything to stay there since you are staying there about 8 times a month? Food? Some money? Anything?
I guess since you're spending the night there so frequently, she's thinking that you owe her to take her kid to school when she's running late.
No she could care less if we took her kid to school. I go over after 11 and usually leave before noon and its her and her son on his select visitation days and my friend. Its a two bedroom apartment.
And I don't think I qualify to be paying her money because I don't eat their food and I use what he uses, we shower together, and if we get hungry we go to walmart or mcdonalds.
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Originally Posted by donie1
I think, what I can gather, is that OP's friend with benefits rents a room from a single mother. So it's her, her friend, the women and her small son. Am I correct, OP?
No she could care less if we took her kid to school. I go over after 11 and usually leave before noon and its her and her son on his select visitation days and my friend. Its a two bedroom apartment.
And I don't think I qualify to be paying her money because I don't eat their food and I use what he uses, we shower together, and if we get hungry we go to walmart or mcdonalds.
How can you say she cares less about taking her kid to school if she bursts into his room and tells him to? That is completely insane for a roommate to do. What is the deal with your friend & this woman?
What does he have to say about all of this? It's up to him to talk to her. You have no say in this matter except to tell him how this affects you. Doesn't this bother him as well?
Looks like he needs some action, we have our own CD fightclub here, I would love to give him an ass kicking 101 session, or he could do the same with me, depends, in any case, he would find an outlet to vent his aggression.
you need to deal with her through the guy then. She probably just feels like your making a mistake and needs to butt in. Either that or there's some semblance of jealousy. I say speak to your friend about it.
Ok, I was a little confused by the title and the story, but from what you said, looks like they has a "thing" going before you came into the picture. YOU may be the one that broke them up and she's jealous of you.
What's her right to tell him to take her kid to school, and she didn't go with him.... Strange.
He's got some splainin' to do....
Just go up to her one night, and say "hey, have I done something to upset you? "have I stepped in the middle of something that I'm not aware of?"
Kill her with KINDNESS, don't fight at all...... It's half her place and she feels like she can throw her weight around.
PS- stay away from McDonalds...YUCK!!!!
Good luck!
OMG such drama! Who needs it. Stop going over there, obviously you are not welcome in her home. Better yet, dump the guy until he can offer you a reasonable and grown up environment in which to visit him.
No one in this scenario sounds mature enough to be having sex.
Maybe she really dislikes you being over because she's hoping that SHE can be the one sleeping with him, and you're foiling her plans....never the less, like many other posters said...LOCK the door,..problem solved!
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