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Old 04-12-2011, 08:40 PM
 
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There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff.

I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee for her on her first day, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:43 PM
 
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women in there 30's are old??

I don't think that is true at all!
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:48 PM
 
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There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff.

I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee for her on her first day, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply
yea buddy women in their 30's are NOT old...


but re: your situation here. sounds like a plan. have fun! if it was my first day at work, i would totally appreciate a cute guy helping me out.

about coffee, you dont even know if she takes it.... maybe save the coffee for later.... or go to lunch later.

you dont want to her to experience samusaran overdose from day 1. just show up and help a few hours or so in the day. then disappear for the rest. and ask her to lunch maybe a few days later. or a week later. take your time and don't overwhelm the new girl. have fun.
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:48 PM
 
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Dont be flirty it is not professional.
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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women in there 30's are old??

I don't think that is true at all!
He's probably working for Hef
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:48 PM
 
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There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff.

I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee for her on her first day, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply
I'd be leery of anyone that acted like you sound. Put your tongue back in your head and stop making plans for someone that you know absolutely nothing about.
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:49 PM
 
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I'd be leery of anyone that acted like you sound. Put your tongue back in your head and stop making plans for someone that you know absolutely nothing about.
She's gonna speak about "her boyfriend" and break his heart
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:50 PM
 
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There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff.

I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee for her on her first day, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply
would love to help, but I'm an old spinster in my 30's
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:50 PM
 
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My advice would really depend on whether or not you want to date this girl or just get to know her. If you want to date her, I'd take it slow. She's starting a new job and she might need time to feel comfortable. Coffee isn't a bad idea, but I wouldn't push her too much for anything. Maybe get to know her first and see how she'd feel about dating a coworker.
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Old 04-12-2011, 08:51 PM
 
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I'd be leery of anyone that acted like you sound. Put your tongue back in your head and stop making plans for someone that you know absolutely nothing about.
the boy is attracted to this cute new girl... apart from figuring out whether she's single or not, i see nothing wrong with this. maybe if she works in the same department and is closely associated at work, it's a bad idea. if not, then i dont see anything wrong with it.
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