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Old 04-20-2011, 09:29 PM
 
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Old 04-20-2011, 09:29 PM
 
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Your description reminds me of someone I know. She loves male attention and enjoys meeting new people. However, she is unwilling and unable to deal with self-disclosure. As soon as a man wants to deepen their relationship and find out more about her, she ends it. Although she's gorgeous and smart, she has low self-esteem and doesn't like herself, and therefore thinks no one else would like her either. So she ends the relationship before she gets rejected.

The woman you're referring to may have different issues that keep her from being able to commit. However, until she's ready and willing to do something about them, she probably won't be able to handle a serious relationship.

Move on.
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Old 04-20-2011, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I wouldn't be anywhere near someone like that..
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Old 04-20-2011, 11:15 PM
 
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Can you say PLAYA??
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Old 04-20-2011, 11:18 PM
 
Location: Texas
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No no no no no no no no!!!!!!!!

She's obviously NOT perfect for you because she's a flakey flake who isn't done growing up yet.

Toss her back in the oven...when she's done baking, maybe she will make a man happy some day. But not any time soon, from the sound of it.
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Old 04-21-2011, 12:33 AM
 
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SHE is not there yet...meaning ready to commit to anyone..so if you choose to pursue this? It will be of your own ACCORD..no backing up and blaming her..you have seen the proof in the pudding so to speak..

She may not be a horrible person, she just has not found the one that hse feels is the one to settle down with..smart actually..
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Old 04-21-2011, 01:10 AM
 
Location: Phx
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Shes a ****. If a man was like her he would be called a male **** and a major Player!
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Old 04-21-2011, 02:57 AM
 
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As long as she isn't lying to anybody, there's no reason to end the relationship. She said she misses you and you also miss her. She might not be ready for a commitment now but maybe you still want to go out with her and also date other women too? There can be an agreement if you talk to her.
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Old 04-21-2011, 05:34 AM
 
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I met her 6 years ago. I was attracted to her at first look....What should i do ?
Move on, and find someone else.
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Old 04-21-2011, 06:03 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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You should do whatever it is your heart is telling you to do...better to have tried and failed than to have never tried at all. At least you will know once and for all. Good Luck!!
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