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Old 04-21-2011, 03:03 PM
 
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Would you / Could you?

This IS NOT about finding out after falling in love (ie weeks or months later) this is upfront 1st (to 3rd) date or before you start dating they let you know they are diseased. What would you do?

Would visible (HPV, HSV) or nonvisible (HIV, Hepatitis) disease have an impact on your decision?
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Old 04-21-2011, 03:05 PM
 
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Would you / Could you?

This IS NOT about finding out after falling in love (ie weeks or months later) this is upfront 1st (to 3rd) date or before you start dating they let you know they are diseased. What would you do?

What would be acceptable, visible (HPV, HSV) or nonvisible (HIV, Hepatitis) disease...
Never. No std's for me thanks

But open to friendship. Actually I want to know that before I kiss a person
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Old 04-21-2011, 05:07 PM
 
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No! I would not date someone with an STD, I would be too fearful of catching it myself, especially AIDs. No thank you. In fact, I'm so fearful of AIDs, I'm afraid to use public restrooms.
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Old 04-21-2011, 05:17 PM
 
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Are you kidding?! No way.
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Old 04-21-2011, 05:25 PM
 
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Nope, absolutely not.
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Old 04-21-2011, 05:29 PM
 
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Since every medicine or treatment I have researched first states that the medicine or treatment should not be considered a cure or a 100% prophylactic, NO!
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Old 04-21-2011, 06:40 PM
 
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Would you / Could you?

This IS NOT about finding out after falling in love (ie weeks or months later) this is upfront 1st (to 3rd) date or before you start dating they let you know they are diseased. What would you do?

Would visible (HPV, HSV) or nonvisible (HIV, Hepatitis) disease have an impact on your decision?
I don't want to die, so HIV and hepatitis would be out of the question for me. I don't want to die of HSV encephalitis either. Or cervical cancer. So I'd avoid HPV and HSV if I could, though there is no way to tell who has the cancer causing subtypes of HPV since nobody is routinely tested.
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Old 04-21-2011, 08:48 PM
 
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Nope.

Man, I hope this thread isn't convincing people to lie about their status.
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Old 04-21-2011, 08:52 PM
 
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HIV and Hepatitis would be a categoric no. The other two would need a big crush on my part.
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Old 04-27-2011, 11:38 AM
 
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Wow. I didn't know there are soooo many ignorant people living in the 1980's on here... Really surprised. I would probably date someone if I knew the person's status and their condition/health is doing well.

For example, did you guys know that HIV can be so low in the persons blood that it is basically non-detectable in the person's body and they basiaclly can't transit it if they are on medication through unprotected sex?

Do you guys even know how HIV, HPV etc. is transmitted and treated/controlled?

I'm still surprised at the responses on this site. Never expected them to be so negative.
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