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Old 04-26-2011, 01:33 PM
 
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People take what they are being offered. If the woman offered sex and he took it, and she madeit so easy for him to take it, if she feels bad is her fault.
that has nothing to do with the part where he took advantage...sometimes you have to see a situation and say to yourself 'even though I COULD do this, i'm not going to because its wrong'...regardless of what the other person does or allows you to do.
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Old 04-26-2011, 01:34 PM
 
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I guess a girl who's after a guy and he already told her he is not interested but continues to have sex with her, its out of her will and he is not a villain, right?
Right. If he is being honest he is not a villain. If he is lying he is.
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Old 04-26-2011, 01:35 PM
 
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that has nothing to do with the part where he took advantage...sometimes you have see a situation and say to yourself 'even though I COULD do this, i'm not going to because its wrong'...regardless of what the other person does or allows you to do.
Having dinner with a man who finds me beautiful is not a crime. Sorry... You take this so personally... jeez.
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Old 04-26-2011, 01:38 PM
 
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Having dinner with a man who finds me beautiful is not a crime. Sorry... You take this so personally... jeez.
If you going to reply, at least reply to what I wrote, my point is in regards to the man who you say takes advantage of a woman, but its her fault soley.
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Old 04-26-2011, 01:40 PM
 
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You take this so personally... jeez.
and dude, you dont know me, believe me im not taking it personally, I just find the whole scenario funny, I guess we have different outlooks on life, lets leave it that
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Old 04-26-2011, 03:08 PM
 
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Having dinner with a man who finds me beautiful is not a crime. Sorry... .
This is why I wonder about your self esteem. People who go on about how beautiful/ desirable they are seldom seem to actually believe it.

To me it sounds like you lost a lot of confidence in your divorce and are now confusing business lunches with dates, assuming these men all desire you madly while using this thread to boast about how wanted you are.

It's a little odd and somewhat confusing to me at least.
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Old 04-26-2011, 03:58 PM
 
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If you make it SO easy for a man to get sex from you and he disappears.... in my book that means a. he was a player b
Or she's an easy skank/hoe/zlut/etc. however you want to call her. Like you said, it can be one's fault or the other. Men/women, doesn't matter.
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Old 04-26-2011, 04:03 PM
 
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If I take a step in her home and she's already bending over asking for it, well I don't have any experience with this situation, but I think I'd try to talk to her, because that's pretty awkward. If she refuses, I'd probably leave, because that's even more awkward, and I don't pack condoms on first dates..
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Old 04-26-2011, 04:06 PM
 
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Or she's an easy skank/hoe/zlut/etc. however you want to call her. Like you said, it can be one's fault or the other. Men/women, doesn't matter.
LOL! I've never seen you blame the guy for anything! It's always the woman's fault! Either she's a ****, skank, gold digger, hooker, etc! I hope you really do see that men and women can be equally as bad.
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Old 04-26-2011, 04:14 PM
 
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LOL! I've never seen you blame the guy for anything! It's always the woman's fault! Either she's a ****, skank, gold digger, hooker, etc! I hope you really do see that men and women can be equally as bad.
I never see you blame women. If you read other posts, you won't be that surprised when I say that men SHOULD do house chores just like I say women SHOULD take initiative, contribute to expenses, propose, blah blah blah. You get the idea.
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