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Old 04-22-2011, 09:44 PM
 
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I get mixed reviews. Some say im ugly some say im handsome. im lost.

this is me

im NOT trolllin

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Old 04-22-2011, 09:47 PM
 
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Old 04-22-2011, 09:47 PM
 
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OP, you keep opening up threads here and on different sections of this forum with the same question. We have told you that you are handsome and that people around you are wrong. Please get help on learning to love yourself and standing up to these people whether they are family, friends or people in your neighborhood saying that you are ugly. YOU ARE NOT UGLY and I'm telling the truth to you.
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Old 04-22-2011, 09:48 PM
 
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OP, you keep opening up threads here and on different sections of this forum with the same question. We have told you that you are handsome and that people around you are wrong. Please get help on learning to love yourself and standing up to these people whether they are family, friends or people in your neighborhood saying that you are ugly. YOU ARE NOT UGLY and I'm telling the truth to you.
wow i didnt realize i earned a rep. Im just tryna get help the only way I can. None of my friends helped me with this and my parents wont let me see a pyschologist. What do u want me to do? talk to an imaginary friend lol?
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Old 04-22-2011, 09:50 PM
 
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Hey Man, get some damn self esteem...gee-wiz!
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Old 04-22-2011, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Southwest France
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If your 18 yrs old, your parents can't stop you from getting professional help. If your under 18, try a school counselor and ask for a referal to a free or sliding scale therapist.

Otherwise, try looking in the mirror and say this every morning " I'm good enough and dog gone it, people like me!"
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Old 04-22-2011, 10:05 PM
 
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If your 18 yrs old, your parents can't stop you from getting professional help. If your under 18, try a school counselor and ask for a referal to a free or sliding scale therapist.

Otherwise, try looking in the mirror and say this every morning " I'm good enough and dog gone it, people like me!"
This is true, Fruitlover ^^^. If you find that you need professional help with self-esteem, get help now while you're young.

You can change your way of thinking by therapy or other means. But try to do some affirmations like what Joliefille said. Tell yourself each morning and maybe before you go to bed.
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Old 04-22-2011, 10:07 PM
 
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wow i didnt realize i earned a rep. Im just tryna get help the only way I can. None of my friends helped me with this and my parents wont let me see a pyschologist. What do u want me to do? talk to an imaginary friend lol?
If you are over 18, you can see a psychiatrist without your parents consent. If under 18, you can still go to the school counselor and get help.

We are all here to help you by listening to you and giving your advice.
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Old 04-22-2011, 10:14 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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This is true, Fruitlover ^^^. If you find that you need professional help with self-esteem, get help now while you're young.

You can change your way of thinking by therapy or other means. But try to do some affirmations like what Joliefille said. Tell yourself each morning and maybe before you go to bed.
Donie gives good advice. I'm dealing with this (still) at 42. Don't wait. Get going on the affirmations and professional help now.
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Old 04-22-2011, 10:17 PM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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If you learn to be a Star performer in any bedroom, you won't have to worry about your looks.

Let those who insist on a good-looking mate shake their heads and roll their eyes!

"What's this good-looking woman doing with this ugly frog!"
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