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Most of us believe that people are on their best behavior on a first date. So if a man or woman isn't gracious on a first date, then what does that say about the future?
If you don't get that right, chances are there won't be a second date!
With your attitude, I hope you are not dating. It will only lead to despair, disappointment, and eventually throwing yourself off a bridge.
What attitude do you think I have? From my side of the monitor I am neither filled with despair nor disappointment. Though throwing myself of a bridge (bungee cord attached) sounds like it would be fun. I am a bit old for such things but I am still up for it. It sounds like a great special first date.
and it begs the question...and what are YOU going to do to impress the man?...answer...'nothing just look pretty, afterall he is lucky enough to be here with me..' thats how some women think...SOME not all but quite a few
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I've never been asked out by a woman. It would be extremely interesting, and chances are that I would say yes (I hate that I'm expected to do it 99% of the time)
DarrenSmooth and JordanJP,
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ShootingStars and Robee70,
So what do you do for your guy on the first date to impress him?
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Originally Posted by robee70
Secondly, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. If you would just stop worrying about what the other side should or shouldn't do, and concentrate on making the best effort, you may wind up pleasantly surprised
Goes both ways. Women should stop worrying if the guy used a coupon or not, got a discount or not, took you to grab a burger or for some caviar and champagne, etc. Be glad a guy asked you out and all you had to do was say yes.
And women say guys talk about money when all these rules that have been posted on how a guy should spend money on women comes from women: he should tip good to show me he’s nice, he should not use coupons, he should spend this way, he should spend that way, etc.
admittedly my imagination got the best of me and I was expecting you to say "stopping all the goings-on at the pants party ". Doesn't sound like there's all that much going on.
There's always something going on at the pants party.
I was there once. I was the guy hanging up all the coats.
Goes both ways. Women should stop worrying if the guy used a coupon or not, got a discount or not, took you to grab a burger or for some caviar and champagne, etc. Be glad a guy asked you out and all you had to do was say yes.
My first date with my husband was a dinner at an inexpensive boardwalk cafe followed by walking & talking til dawn on the beach. We were in our 20's and if God forbid I was to ever be dating again, it still sounds like an ideal first date to me. However, if he would have pulled out a clipped coupon or started mentally adding up how much each dish cost,, I don't think there would have been a second date.
I would never say yes to a first date with a man if I didn't want to get to know them better. However, they aren't doing me a favor by asking me out any more than I am doing them a favor by accepting.
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And women say guys talk about money when all these rules that have been posted on how a guy should spend money on women comes from women: he should tip good to show me he’s nice, he should not use coupons, he should spend this way, he should spend that way, etc.
Actually, chivalry is best taught from father to son.
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