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Old 04-26-2011, 02:22 PM
 
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lol, how on earth is a woman supposed to know that that is her problem after all?? I would just think men don't like me.
She can stop putting any makeup and dress like a tomboy?
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Old 04-26-2011, 02:23 PM
 
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lol, how on earth is a woman supposed to know that that is her problem after all?? I would just think men don't like me.
If a woman is fine, she already knows it so she should know.

Its the very attractive women that have bad attitudes.
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Old 04-26-2011, 02:43 PM
 
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There is no real reason to directly ask a man out.

We know how to send signals to tell him the coast is clear. The rest is up to him.

If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
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Old 04-26-2011, 02:48 PM
 
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If a woman is fine, she already knows it so she should know.

Its the very attractive women that have bad attitudes.
lol interesting. I mean people say I'm attractive and a few guys I know have said I'm intimidating (what? I thought I was giggly and approachable! lol). then I have people like my boss criticizing every little breakout I have so I don't even know which it is, which is a big reason why I assume if a man doesn't ask me out, he's not interested.
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Old 04-26-2011, 02:55 PM
 
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You would rather go out with a stranger then someone who is interested in you but does not ask you out?
I would prefer a man who is interested in me to have the balls to actually ask me out...stranger or not.
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Old 04-26-2011, 02:57 PM
 
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There is no real reason to directly ask a man out.

We know how to send signals to tell him the coast is clear. The rest is up to him.
Yup.
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Old 04-26-2011, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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I have asked men out but probably won't do it again. They have usually accepted but somehow I got the message that it was a bit of a turn-off. I think that men think they'd like to be asked out, b/c after all it would be flattering, but I have the impression that deep down they're actually uncomfortable about it. The last time I asked someone out, this past November, I got the feeling that he only accepted b/c he didn't want to hurt my feelings but then he went on to make the date excruciatingly uncomfortable and I realized that some men just don't know how to say no b/c they're not used to being asked out. So, never again. Wouldn't you know though--I actually find shy guys attractive. Had one fishing around the other day and I finally gave up, but I wasn't going to ask b/c I had the feeling that he'd be mortified about that. He kind of looked like Sean Connery too.
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Old 04-26-2011, 03:21 PM
 
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I would prefer a man who is interested in me to have the balls to actually ask me out...stranger or not.
So what about the guy who is very much interested in you and both of you know each other for quite a while? Maybe this guy is patient and will ask you out later.
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Old 04-26-2011, 03:28 PM
 
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So what about the guy who is very much interested in you and both of you know each other for quite a while? Maybe this guy is patient and will ask you out later.

Maybe... Or maybe not.

I'm not gonna hold my breath on that one though...
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Old 04-26-2011, 03:35 PM
 
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I have asked men out but probably won't do it again.
This is kind of along the same line as making the first move.

I've done it before, and won't be doing it again. The older I get the less I chase after guys. I find the results satisfactory.

Nobody wants a lukewarm man. lol
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