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Marry a woman who loves sex and you won't have this issue. In my experience, most women I've known have had by far the higher sex drive than their husbands, especially after 35 or 40. And if you feel kids ruin marital sex, don't burden yourself with them. And if you choose to have kids, don't complain your sex life went down the drain. It usually does once children enter the equation. Not always... but usually.
A friend of mine suggested that as you lie in bed with your wife, just as she is about to fall asleep you start doing the five fingered knuckle shuffle to the point of rattling the bed. She will ultimately give it up because her options are limited at that point. Help a brother out. Im only gettin it twice a week.
I must be dense but I do not understand this statement. Are you referring to jacking off so vigorously that you wake up the wife and she can't go back to sleep until she satisfies you? Hm...
If that were me I can assure you that I would have several options, and not one of them would be "giving it up."
you want your wife to "give up" the nookie? Many people have made some fabulous suggestions. Women just don't walk into the bedroom ready for nookie.. When kids are in the picture.. do you think a woman feels sexy as she comes home to get dinner on the table for you and the screaming kids.. Only to hear the "Give me sexd" routine. Then she needs to make sure that the kids homework is done, the dishes are done, things are ready for in the morning - all the while the husband in some cases (not all) goes about his hobbies/tv watching.. then night comes along.. and your concern is to get her to give it up?
of course this is generallys peaking and if you actually listen to MANY MANY women they will tell you this same story over and over... They don't feel sexy or cherished or appreciated and its one more "chore" they need to do.
If you really CARE.. help her out.. tell her how wonderful she is, take her out on a date... Will it happen over night - no.. but you will notice a marked improvement in your love life.
To capture your objective, you must plan to be relaxed and alone with your wife for a whole weekend. If you just plan just one night away, the poor woman is probably so exhausted, all she'll probably want to do is sleep. Friday through Sunday afternoon gives you the best shot at her being amenable to some sweet lovin') Yes, you will have to arrange for a weekend babysitter for the kids. Yes, you'll have arrange a getaway to a place she would enjoy (don't take her to a luxury hotel if she's a rustic cabin kinda girl)
Lol I know, huh? I was just challenging men with that line that it’s not just helping clean the house and that’s it. An atmosphere has to be created as well. Also said how, for women, its not just have sex to get something out of it (marital prostitution).
I believe foreplay does not start at night in the bedroom. Foreplay starts with that kiss on your spouse’s forehead as you wake up to go to work without anything sexual to it. A call during the day to tell your spouse something sweet and just a brief chat about how things are looking at work. A hidden silly love note on his/her car’s windshield. And so on. That is how I see it. And not just from man to woman but also from woman to man.
Having to play juvenile games is not my idea of romance.
This thread makes me sad because I get NONE of the nice gestures that everyone mentioned. In fact, he refuses to help in the evenings and says "I work all day." Then he waits until I finally have the kids in bed and plop down, exhausted and drained, and says "I didn't get married to not have sex!" "I have needs" blah blah blah
Sorry, but I don't want to jump in bed with someone who has forced me to emotionally distance myself from them. I feel like I should just charge $50 or something!
Sorry to add insult to injury, but I get home from work, take both very young kids, make dinner, clean up dinner, put both kids to bed, clean up the house so that it's spotless for my wife the next day, and I insist my wife goes out to see her friends, go shopping, get some alone time.
Sorry to add insult to injury, but I get home from work, take both very young kids, make dinner, clean up dinner, put both kids to bed, clean up the house so that it's spotless for my wife the next day, and I insist my wife goes out to see her friends, go shopping, get some alone time.
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That's because you are a man, not a boy.
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