Men: Would you prefer a SAHM or career woman for a wife?

[Kevroqs]

If I was stuck with either one, I'd go with the SAHM.

I'm not a career man, more like a work to live kind of guy. So I have to find the one with the right mindset because a career woman would not be thrilled with my mentality. There's more to life than to be stuck in the same building with the same jerk of a boss, and the same but kissers that would throw you under the bus at the drop at the dime. And if you make it to retirement in your 60s and/or 70s, you would most likely be less physically capable of doing the things that you wanted when you were working.

[NewYorker11356]

Originally Posted by Kevdawgg

If I was stuck with either one, I'd go with the SAHM.

I'm not a career man, more like a work to live kind of guy. So I have to find the one with the right mindset because a career woman would not be thrilled with my mentality. There's more to life than to be stuck in the same building with the same jerk of a boss, and the same but kissers that would throw you under the bus at the drop at the dime. And if you make it to retirement in your 60s and/or 70s, you would most likely be less physically capable of doing the things that you wanted when you were working.

Same.

I am attracted to independent women that do have their own jobs/money, but not to the point where their career is the most important thing in the world.

[Norrov84]

Would rather have a girlfriend or wife that doesn't want kids and has none!
She's gotta work, looking for a girlfriend, not a dependant. Doesn't have to be anything great, just a job good enough to support her desired lifestyle.